Romantic Dinners

pickupkid's Avatar
the only dinner I need is pussy
I say dinner after the BCD. That way you build up your hunger . Originally Posted by rrabbit6926
I've tried it both ways and dinner after the session is the way to go for me. If I eat a meal beforehand it slows me down. But if I abstain from dinner before the session, the session is better it seems.

Kind of like when I played football and we would eat our pregame meal 4 hours before the game because its easier to play and perform on an empty stomach.
BCD - then dinner - then more BCD - then breakfast and then a soft kiss good bye!!
shorty's Avatar
I agree with Rabbitt on BCD before the dinner. It does make it harder for someone to do the dinner date in same town as you live in if your married. I would say the dinner date is cheaper in the long run than seeing someone at there hourly rate.
London Rayne's Avatar
I do more dinner dates than any other package choice on my website, and it's always after bcd. My rates are quite reasonable for public time and the dinner packages start at a min. of 3 hours, so there is plenty of time for both. I don't much mind if it goes over with drive time either.

I can't relax and enjoy dinner knowing I have to perform for 90 min. to 2 hours after, so I simply don't deal with it. I like to make sure the guy gets his full time bcd, then we can relax at dinner without worrying.

As for "dinner being more money for the provider," well so is play time lol. If you can't get along with her at dinner or over drinks, I doubt the sex is going to be that great anyway. Many guys can't perform like circus monkeys and enjoy the companionship aspect of the hobby as well. For those who do, it is affordable.
Cpalmson's Avatar
I disagree with the notion that dinner is more $$$ for the provider. Maybe I was unclear when I brought it up. The money aspect is actually more money spent by the client with some of it going to the restaurant. I'd never begrudge a provider on her rates for certain packages.

London, I like your approach to the public time and BCD time. At least it is more reasonable than what some other providers advertise. Usually the ones I noticed are in large metro areas and I assume the dinner and playtime locations are relatively close in terms of proximity-- maybe even at the restaurant at the hotel as most downtown hotels have a restaurant in them.

BTW, I do have this fantasy of meeting a provider at a bar for drinks and then retiring for BCD activities. It is my fantasy of meeting a stranger and picking her up. Obviously, I can only fantasize about this. Either that or indulge in the fantasy when I am far, far out of town by myself and not associated with meetings or a trade group.
Fort Worth Punk's Avatar
I said no because, more often than not, I do not want to taste what the lady had for dinner.
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I can't relax and enjoy dinner knowing I have to perform for 90 min. to 2 hours after, so I simply don't deal with it. I like to make sure the guy gets his full time bcd, then we can relax at dinner without worrying..... Originally Posted by London Rayne
No need to worry dear, we can eat later....too!!
I like my 4 hour dinner dates. I agree that play, dinner, then more play is fabulous.
London Rayne's Avatar
I disagree with the notion that dinner is more $$$ for the provider. Maybe I was unclear when I brought it up. The money aspect is actually more money spent by the client with some of it going to the restaurant. I'd never begrudge a provider on her rates for certain packages.

London, I like your approach to the public time and BCD time. At least it is more reasonable than what some other providers advertise. Usually the ones I noticed are in large metro areas and I assume the dinner and playtime locations are relatively close in terms of proximity-- maybe even at the restaurant at the hotel as most downtown hotels have a restaurant in them.

BTW, I do have this fantasy of meeting a provider at a bar for drinks and then retiring for BCD activities. It is my fantasy of meeting a stranger and picking her up. Obviously, I can only fantasize about this. Either that or indulge in the fantasy when I am far, far out of town by myself and not associated with meetings or a trade group. Originally Posted by Cpalmson
Somebody has been watching, When a Man Loves a Woman lol. "Can you do me a favor and pick up my dry cleaning...you see I am a pilot and just found out I have to fly out."

Oh Ed, let us eat!
London Rayne's Avatar
I said no because, more often than not, I do not want to taste what the lady had for dinner. Originally Posted by Fort Worth Punk
Ummmm...how do you know she did not eat 10 min. before she met you?
shorty's Avatar
London. . . Isn't that what that Marlboro and gum is for.LOL
London Rayne's Avatar
London. . . Isn't that what that Marlboro and gum is for.LOL Originally Posted by shorty
Granted, but she could have easily gobbled up some chicken fingers on the way to him. No way to know either way lol.
Cpalmson's Avatar
Somebody has been watching, When a Man Loves a Woman lol. "Can you do me a favor and pick up my dry cleaning...you see I am a pilot and just found out I have to fly out."

Oh Ed, let us eat! Originally Posted by London Rayne

London, I'm going to have to make a special trip to wherever you are at and let you indulge me in the fantasy. Too bad I had to work when you were visiting NW Florida.
London Rayne's Avatar
I just did this for a guy trying to make his ex jealous lol. He made me stand at a bar in a super nice restaurant acting as if I were alone and depressed. Then once he saw me talking to another guy, he came over and ran some dumb line which I had to pretend to fall for. I gave him head in the elevator on the way up to the room lol. Needless to say, we did not eat before bcd...ok well I did!