this whole discussion is absurd...kind of like trying to define "gfe".
first of all, if you're that worried about what gets written in the activities list, then maybe this isn't the right game for you. secondly, many, many girls do not list a menu, nor will they respond when asked what their menu is. a lot of girls would rather not be asked these questions, and a lot of clients… me included… prefer not to have to ask. having readily available information helps to solve that bit of awkwardness.
further, you may not be aware of this, but it cost $20 per month just to have premium access if you aren't writing reviews, which many users choose not to do. i should pay $20 a month just so you can feel better about the so-called entire world not being able to see that you were fucking some guy? i think you're going to need to get over that.
Originally Posted by john_deere
Maybe this is the point of this discussion. I notice on BP, a lot of ladies say they will not discuss anything! Not a promising sign to me. Now, if a lady says she is GFE or PSE, that means something. At least it is a place to start a conversation with! I would be very hesitant meeting with a lady here that didn't express anything in her post and also refused to talk about specifics through PM's. Thinking there should be some clear cut understanding on the issue. I guess I agree with the concern over activities being public. The reality is, if anybody can look at local ladies, see the activities happening (or reported to have happened), and even a good idea of location of activities. it's just a matter of time for something bad happens!