Beware of sweet dreamy holly

Saw her and she's cool. Review to come.

The screening process can be a ladies gut feeling about anyone who request to see her. If it doesn't feel right, don't do it.

The fact that he goes public with his complaint shows his attempts at manipulation; proof that your intuition is correct.

JHR Originally Posted by JRLawrence

JRLawrence thank you. Part of my screening process IS going off my gut feeling. And my initial gut feeling was that there was something off with him. But I know that sometimes I'm just being paranoid. So I'll go further into my screening process. As I did this with him red flag after red flag kept telling me to turn this one down. So I did. As for the manipulation well it continued in the last PM I received from him yesterday morning. I think I'll copy and paste maybe someone else can give their opinion. The funny thing is after I read it my first thought was "your not going to manipulate me into seeing you by trying to make me feel bad for turning you down." So I'm glad that I'm not the only one who sees it as a manipulation tactic. Whew I'm NOT crazy.

staff edit-s31: #9 - No form of private communications between members are to be posted in our forums. This includes the contents of emails, PMs, IMs, private chat logs, privately shared images, etc. This is an invasion of another's privacy and will not be allowed.

The last PM from yesterday morning. Any opinions on this?

You've made your decision regarding this client. There's really no need to go any further? Especially no need to relay to the rest of us strangers what was said in private to you, and to ask our often times misguided, self serving, & sometimes ill informed opinions. If what he has said has caused you to second guess or reconsider your position, then so be it. But my opinion is, leave the peanut gallery (us), out of it. Maybe talk to other providers whom you're close with, but the rest of us have no buisness being in your buisness. I wish you all the luck in the world in arriving at a decision that works best for you.

Yea. Keep your private shit private.

My references are legit Just haven't seen anyone in the past 60 days because I have a life fucktard! Originally Posted by 19messages

If you consider legit references from random BP ladies who I seriously doubt ever asked you for reference information in the first place as acceptable...well that's absurd!

If you consider legit references from random BP ladies who I seriously doubt ever asked you for reference information in the first place as acceptable...well that's absurd! Originally Posted by Couture

See??? This is why you don't include us in your buisness. We prejudge and form/rip opinions from our asses when we've not fully vetted all parties or are privy to all the information. But nevertheless it does not stop us from chiming in and spewing venom to amp up the "volume" on the "drama." This poster has never been to KC nor has ever seen the guy, but they have a definitive view on things. I have not checked, but I sincerely doubt that they've even had any real or intimate communication with you? Are you certain you wish to consider input from such a person?

This is why I love that p411 is ran by a woman and not men.

Why?

P411 and eccie have two totally different purposes from each other. P411 is not a heavy information exchange between members site. Its main purpose is as a verification/advertising site. There are no opinions other than providers giving clients okays.

Look guys I'm from TX. I'm very picky about how I do things because in TX you run a legitimately high probability of getting busted. I really don't know the rules of Eccie. I know I can post 1 weekly ad and 1 weekend lineup ad. I know I can't post in Welcomes and introductions except for in the North and East TX forum because for some reason they have a weekend lineup but no weekly provider ad section. I know that I hate kissing ass to keep a name that I successfully started building in 2013 w/o help from Eccie. I'm one of the most easy going and laid back girls you will ever meet, if you do. I don't think that my shit don't stink. I'm human so sometimes it does. I have good days and bad days just like anyone else. I truly enjoy my job and in doing so my goal is always to have fun. But to be smart and safe too. I apologize if I have offended anyone. It's never my intention to do that. I try to be REAL as much as possible which often times can and probably is rude. But it's because the world has gotten so soft that criticism is often viewed as a personal attack when really it's just an opportunity to make improvement. I like Eccie because it does help to make things easier to an extent. But I don't like the ROS because I don't know that what is written there is true. I'm pretty sure I haven't had anyone write anything fucked up or false that I know of because I know I treat my guys pretty decent. And will continue to do so because I do pride myself on my customer service skills. I broke a rule. Okay. I've also been arrested before so apparently I've broken rules previously. As we all have. We are human. Shit happens. I worry about myself and myself only. I don't intentionally try to to screw others over. I'm neither greedy or desperate. And I'm good at what I do. I know I am not everyone's cup of tea but for those of you who like my type always get taken care of properly. I will continue to build my name and reputation as I have been. And I hope that this really is the end of this thread. Thank you everyone for your support. Excuse me for breaking a rule. I have been punished. And please contact me if you want to or vice versa.

This is why I love that p411 is ran by a woman and not men. Originally Posted by Sweet Dreamy Holly

Wow...that is a very big statement, if like it so much...better stick to it. Good luck mam.

staff edit-s31: #9 - No form of private communications between members are to be posted in our forums. This includes the contents of emails, PMs, IMs, private chat logs, privately shared images, etc. This is an invasion of another's privacy and will not be allowed.

The last PM from yesterday morning. Any opinions on this? Originally Posted by Sweet Dreamy Holly

They left a thread up that a " client" posted ..a PM that I sent..never took it down..which I could care less.
Unless you are 18 or - & have a pimp.. The welcoming committee. .whom you have met...are not so warm ( not all them...but you got a nice taste of it)
Actually. .rather cold.. and not the nice cold like on a hot day
Do NOT take it personally...nope nope nope!!!
Just get on with your day..get your nails done
Go shop on the Plaza
Enjoy KC..it is Beautiful here!!!
And Most of the gents & ladies are nice...IGNORE THE FUCK..out of the bullies

Wow...that is a very big statement, if like it so much...better stick to it. Good luck mam. Originally Posted by SpicyOnion

Nobody asked you..did they
She can utilize any site she so chooses
What a concept. ...

P411 and eccie have two totally different purposes from each other. P411 is not a heavy information exchange between members site. Its main purpose is as a verification/advertising site. There are no opinions other than providers giving clients okays. Originally Posted by cmore197474

Glad you straightened that out for her.. and anybody else that had no idea