Some men I have met like to be watched Jacking off...
They don't necessarily want to have help...just being watched...
I will.
Who likes women to watch them jack off?
Originally Posted by *GoddessDallas*
maaaaaaany moons ago, one of my girlfriends let me spend one night a week at her house, usually when her young daughter was w/ her ex. some of the best sexual intimacies i've ever had. if she was on her monthly cycle, we'd still smooch and she'd give me bbbjtc's. if she was very tired and didnt want to give me a bbbj, i'd get on my knees on the bed and masterbate while she held me, watched me, played w/ my balls, etc. until lil delites would spurt forth onto the towel we laid on the bed [so we didnt have to sleep in it].
that was pretty intense as we deeply cared about each other and she would do what she could to get me there.
alas, we werent really in a committed
relationship, which we were both okay with [it was kind of a FWB+ relationship]. so, when she moved to the midwest, i stayed here. still am in contact w/ her but we each have our s.o.'s.
then in the late 90s, i found the Adult News Eentertainment ads [long before craigslist, backpage, aspd, much less eccie]. and just having a woman watch you do your thing was about the best you could get from an intimate consulting appt. back then.
some of my first less than deliteful experiences went like this....
- call to make an appt
- go to the young woman's hotel or apt
- put a consulting fee of 160-200 someplace visible
- disrobe and position yourselves on opposite sides of a bed or couch with maximum space between you
- "why dont you take care of yourself and i'll care of myself?" she'd say
- we did, usually w/ little to no intimate connection between us
- dress and leave
after a few of those, i said "pm, that's not what you're looking for!!"
so, i found out about aspd when it was on delphi.com and started visiting asian spas [at least there she got you off even if she didnt speak much english]
then had an opportunity to visit the Bunny Ranch in Pahrump, NV for THE best bjtc i've ever experienced [covered, of all things]
then found eros.com and started visiting indys from there and aspd.
now, all these moons later, i'd still rather have a physical interaction that a visual interaction.
these days, lil delites is sometimes not so cooperative and pouring my 2nd cup while we're interlocked is a hit or miss proposition.
some of my current indy favs will indulge me while i take matters into my own hands and myself to completion. last year, during some of my doubles consulting sessions, one would hold or play w/ lil delites and the boys [even sucking on them] while i would caress and/or finger the other one to her delites. i can remember one session where they had body/contact orgasms when i had mine.
now
that's what i call
sensual, erotic, and intimate!!
again, they were willing participants, cared about me [to the extent possible in these arrangements], and would do what they could to get me there.
so, while i would masturbate w/ another woman [or two or ...] watching, i'd rather she be a part of the action, as well intimate consulting before and/or after i did my solo thing.