Sterly...
That is a good mix! Candle wax can be fun! I used to be afraid of it until I was at a swingers event and someone pulled it out. I enjoyed it immensely! Same with fire play. Very erotic.
I've known a fair number of men who did not consider themselves into bdsm stuff that like the things you list. I think it is a matter of a person's definition of "vanilla". To some, I'm far, far from vanilla. However, I'm sure there are groups who would consider me plain vanilla - not even the kind with the little specks in it. Originally Posted by JxnBiLady
True Tess-i have been experimenting with candle wax...its cool!!