Why is Houston so awful for business ?

Yes to sex being part of the dom fantasy for me.
Yes to the dom having to be physically attractive to me.
Yes to younger (35 or under) being a preference but not a requirement if the woman is what I am looking for appearance-wise.

I have been doing Domination for the last almost 5 years and Houston is the worst city. Can anyone tell me why ? Austin, Denver, Co , Dallas, El Paso and even Waco have been good. Originally Posted by gothchic

Maybe it's because you just ain't that hot.

Not a very nice comment !!

Supply and demand

I'm a switch... I look for providers who will work the DOM and GFE side of the bedroom. I also look for providers who have a full showcase... I want to know their age, I like providers over 45 years old... I am over 55 and dont want to play with a daughter type. Gothchic maybe you need to provide more info on your profile page...
Just my $.02 and nearly 30 years experience in the hobby.

Perhaps the threads on "Scat Brownies", hairy armpits, brown showers, etc.?

Maybe it's because you just ain't that hot. Originally Posted by Trey

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In this forum, we value being polite and above board in our dealings with others. It's a common trait with kinksters and people who play in these fields.

Elisabeth

Not a very nice comment !! Originally Posted by The Slut

Thanks for writing what many were thinking!

As far as the question poised by the OP, Houston is a funny market. Plus, I don't see where you have a regular type of website, other than a fetlife profile.

I have a few very general thoughts to share.

I find that if you're going to be involved in sex work, which domination is (we can argue the point another time), and if you're going to advertise in this market, a regular website would be very helpful.

Also, advertising is just key. I would really search for alternative advertising. I would research and see what the other (successful) Dommes are doing in terms of rates and advertising in your part of town.

Houston is a very dynamic city. It also has just some wonderful features. I adore the town. I had considered moving there at one point a few years back. But I also have issues with working there on a regular basis.

I bet Houston has plenty of potential for clients. It's just tapping into the market.

You don't have a showcase on Eccie. But I did notice that you have a fetlife profile. A lot of people aren't comfortable on fetlife. I'm a member there but I rarely participate on the site. A LOT of people on there don't like professional dominates.

I'm seeing where there are places, and I don't even know you (yet!), that you could be utilizing marketing better than you are. (i.e. showcase on Eccie. website, etc.)

Do you place ads on backpage? I know that many ladies just HATE that venue for ads but I find it to be a good one. Be careful, though. It does seem like Houston is rather "hot" right now.

These are all of my early morning thoughts! Good luck.

Elisabeth

Comments such as this aren't tolerated in Another Realm. If you wish to spew insults, do it somewhere else.

In this forum, we value being polite and above board in our dealings with others. It's a common trait with kinksters and people who play in these fields.

Elisabeth Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers

You absolutely sure you want to go down this road Elisabeth? Think carefully...and long...before you respond...

To the OP, I'm of the opinion that I want to get value for what I pay for. I evaluate that value based on what I see when I do my initial research.

Based on reviews, I don't find the service you offer worth any value. Based on your avatar, I don't find that you're attractive enough to overcome the lack of value in the service you offer.

It's just a simple matter of value for money...maybe there are a lot of Houstonians who think the same as me, maybe not...

Comments such as this aren't tolerated in Another Realm. If you wish to spew insults, do it somewhere else.

In this forum, we value being polite and above board in our dealings with others. It's a common trait with kinksters and people who play in these fields.

Elisabeth Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers

She asked a question and got a response. It was honest. It wasn't mean. If you're ugly you don't make as much as a hooker. You gotta know that, it's the basics. For a section of the board where folks literally eat shit, y'all sure act pretty high and mighty.

Why am I not allowed to truthfully answer her question?

She asked a question and got a response. It was honest. It wasn't mean. If you're ugly you don't make as much as a hooker. You gotta know that, it's the basics. For a section of the board where folks literally eat shit, y'all sure act pretty high and mighty.

Why am I not allowed to truthfully answer her question? Originally Posted by Trey

Fair enough. I do sincerely appreciate such a response.

I could have overreacted a bit because although I don't even know the lady above, until this topic, I tend towards protectiveness towards the women here. And I do not see that changing.

Of course, you're allowed to answer truthfully. My apologies.

Best,
Elisabeth

It might be an honest response but that doesn't make it helpful or accurate. Lots of people are of the opinion that I am ugly / fat / gross / whatever, however, lots of other people are of the opinion that I am stunningly beautiful in a rare and valuable way. Beauty and attractiveness are in the eye of the beholder. Men have varied tastes. It's irrelevant for a john to interject his personal opinion that a lady is "not hot" and that's why she's not doing well. If you're not doing well in a particular market, it's your insufficient marketing, not your looks. Men have varied tastes and Houston is a big city. I'm sure there are lots of potential clients in Houston who think the OP is attractive enough to want to be dominated by her, and also find the psychological complexities and varied skills of her domination services more valuable than those of a nineteen year old who gives BBBJs.

Elizabeth, I think you were right to point out that comments such as the ones recently made have no value on this board, and are also unnecessarily harmful. But then again, if the OP only wanted opinions from professionals who actually understand how the industry works from the back end, she could have made it on a Ladies-only forum. I don't know if it's proper to ban disparaging commends about providers' appearances, but it's certainly on-point to state that they're inappropriate, unhelpful, and in this case, ultimately inaccurate- a misrepresentation of one opinion as concrete fact.

"Lots of people are of the opinion that I am ugly "

Body wise you're on point. Bit of butter on the face department and you desperately need a wax or shave. But body ain't bad.

"I'm sure there are lots of potential clients in Houston who think the OP is attractive enough to want to be dominated by her"

If that were true she would never have posted this thread.

"more valuable than those of a nineteen year old who gives BBBJs."
I don't think so. The 19 year old is making cash.



Lady don't get mad if you don't like what I say. I'm just telling her the truth. You can blow all that smoke up her ass if you want.

Lots of people are of the opinion that I am ugly / fat / gross / whatever, however, lots of other people are of the opinion that I am stunningly beautiful in a rare and valuable way. Originally Posted by spicyzoey

But you'd only allow the "you're beautiful" opinions to be voiced on the board...the "you're ugly" opinions are untruthful and unhelpful...

Let me know how that works out for you...

It's irrelevant for a john to interject his personal opinion that a lady is "not hot" and that's why she's not doing well. Originally Posted by spicyzoey

Um...he's the one who could be providing her business, but he chooses not to...so him telling her why he's not purchasing her services is the only relevant thing said here so far...

I don't know if it's proper to ban disparaging commends about providers' appearances, but it's certainly on-point to state that they're inappropriate, unhelpful, and in this case, ultimately inaccurate- a misrepresentation of one opinion as concrete fact. Originally Posted by spicyzoey

How can someone's opinion be inaccurate? Opinion is one of the few totally accurate things on this board...

And you REALLY don't want me to venture into your banning comment...that was plain ludicrous...