She needs "a few more minutes" to get ready ...

Since I have a private incall, I've found that leaving the front door unlocked and telling my gentleman caller to let themselves in and help themselves to a drink while I finish whatever primping I need to works pretty well. Originally Posted by SA Angel

I recall that's how our last visit started ... and I was totally fine with it.

I generally don't try to squeeze in a session when I have tight time constraints, so patience isn't a problem - though being imprisoned in a car for a long wait doesn't put me in the best of moods, most providers tend to take my mind off of my troubles after five or ten minutes anyway.

It's the sitting-in-the-car-getting-the-hairy-eyeball part that's got me most concerned.

My "playtimes" are very limited as compared to other Gents and so I'm still a novice around here but I too have waited for someone at times. As for me it's no big deal waiting a little more, I greatly appreciate a Lady that looks her best...what is most telling is how good a host she is once you meet.

If she can make you forget the waiting, driving in traffic, work, stress...it's all good. Hopefully this post is more constructive than my last but just good ole plain fun BCD will make you forgive all

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All the more reason to NOT book back to back. Sometimes gents like to add more time, better to have some leeway for more playing.

God created man first, woman second.
Just shows even the first man had to wait.

I honestly have never worried about sitting outside. 10 to 15 min is easily excusable. Can tell anyone that you're just waiting for a friend. Because really, you are. Now 30 min or more with no explanation, that's an issue.

As for how to deal with it, I usually plan this into my visit of a possible 10 to 15 min wait. Not a big deal, if they say it's going to be a little longer, I'll let them know I'm running to the store and to let me know when they will be ready, I'll be close by, just say when. Never had any issues with anyone wondering what I'm doing if waiting, I just jam out to some music or watch some sports highlights.

I'm always early, just the way I am. I've waited up to an hour before calling it a night. I always give the lady the benefit, but I won't come back after that, you get to waist one hour of my time and you can spend it how you like, then we are done.

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Ya all know the one's that need to read this ARE NOT! With that said, I think one can tell when they are running late LONG before scheduled time. So give us a heads up in advance. A few visits ago I went to an ATM that had closed down & my homely ass was lost, I did find one BUT I sent a txt 30 + in advance. No fault on either part-- S--T happens. I was ready to have my time cut short.. but hats off to the lady... no rush AT ALL...

I think a lot of people are confused at the OP's inquiry here, it's not so much about the subject of lateness whether it's the guy or the lady, but how to handle it by not looking suspicious out in the car while waiting either at a private incall or notel.

Personally, I'd much rather wait outside of a notel since it makes much more sense. ''Just waiting on my friend to check in.'' Some lots are huge, and most people probably don't care whatsoever being a public spot let alone paying attention to someone else. People come and go all day long, and will find many people hanging about in some cases.

At a private incall like an apartment, many peering eyes from windows wanna check the guy who just pulled up and is waiting for 20 to 30 minutes in the neighbors parking spot, could cause some unsettling nerves. Like I said, ''I'm just waiting for my friend to get home, they told me they went to the store really quick.'' That is if someone asks, but in 10 years of the hobby, never been asked once no matter how long the wait. What makes me particularly calm is knowing that no one there knows who I am there to see or what residence I am going to. For all they know, I could be going clear across the lot. However, if it goes beyond 10 minutes, I let the lady know I'm running to the store and if they need anything. Turns out one time they needed a coffee from Starbucks, sounded great to me so I grabbed two!

As stated before, I pass the time by watching sports highlights, reading news articles, or just finding something entertaining on here to check out.

After 30 minutes, I would probably call it a day if I didn't hear anything back and let them know I am taking off and to text me within five minutes if they are still wanting to meet. Had that happen once or twice ever. One girl got back to me, happened to be she dropped her phone and landed under her sofa to where she had no idea where it went due to it being on silent in preparing for our date.

As for the last part of the OP's post, I do try to highlight the tcb from point a to point b and ultimately my exit from point b. I agree too many just focus on bcd and to be honest, I pass over much of that stuff in a review as much can be imagined from the activity list. I am more interested in if the girl is always late (helps me plan my day), how easy it was to set up the date via pm, text, email, etc. Incall location if it is safe, a hotel, area of town or whatever. Helps to know if the area might be safe to wait in my vehicle especially at night. Then post bcd is important. Was there a shower, towels, bottle of water available upon leaving.

I do agree with knowing who is on time and knowing which ones consistently are to avoid awkward moments of sitting out in the vehicle. I have accepted that we live in a less than perfect world however, and time to time things will happen such as being late. Usually, if a lady is late, many write about it so I have come to know that if I arrive right on time or five minutes passed, there is usually a chance that I will be waiting for another five to ten minutes. Never have I been asked to come up early if arriving just slightly before. Perhaps only on a handful of times has that actually happened. Having accepted that five to fifteen minutes passed is the norm, I have had a much more enjoyable experience having put that into my equation.

I say I'm in the parking lot when I'm really at the convenience store at the corner.

If I've never been to a particular location before, and especially if I haven't been BCD with that provider, I would be very uncomfortable "letting myself in" an incall.

These chicks are hookers it's not like your dealing with professional business people, expect them to have dysfunctional personal lives that spill over into this.

Fifteen minutes and I'm down the road unless she has notified me before I arrive that she is running late.