I LIKE getting a PM if we know each other, have talked before on the Boards, I've tried to book w/you before & it fell through & you're coming back to town & want to let me know (that's great actually) or esp. if I've seen you & said I want to see you again.
I normally DON'T like getting random PM's from women I've never met, never spoken to, or even shared a joke with on a Co-ed thread. This is a real shotgun approach, b/c it's obvious that most of them pay no attention to the types of girls I like--otherwise, except in 2 cases, they would've known not to bother (most recent one may be the exception that proves the rule--she's smokin'). I get them a lot though.