Security, yours and mine

EXACTLY!!!!! Especially on assuming he is safe just because he has reviews. A review can be faked and a provider can beg to have it removed but it wont be...unless the reviewer asks...and that would mean admitting its fake! Plus a review just means he MAY not be LE (unless his acct has been turned over).. doesnt tell you if he is an abusive bastard with balls that stink like 3 day old roadkill.... ijs.



i never understood girls calling a guys work.... it may prove who he is.. but i know a dozen LEO who also have part time jobs elsewhere... not to mention a fake job can easily be made for sting operations..

I say go with P411. Ive never heard a bad thing about that site nor Gina regarding ur private info getting out. Its the best screening tool... and safest! Originally Posted by Devon Derriere

Fake reviews????? Is there no honor among fucktards?

It is a process but there are ways to help protect the gentlemen. For one, not carrying or transporting the information gained. Frequent email wipes. Not keeping passwords saved in ones laptop or computer. Making sure the computer's main password is complicated. Not putting the information in her phone.

These particular steps are wonderful in protecting the gentleman but do have their drawbacks. This can mean having to be screened more than once. The lady not remembering your name or phone number "Hi this is john remember me?" well without information easily found let's just say there are a lot of johns out there.

Other steps taken by many ladies is spread out incall uses. Yes if your favored lady has a home for an incall that is more risky than the lady who changes hotels regularly. Consider being her neighbor. Too many eyes and too much regularity.

Being sure to maintain a discreet appearance. Easier said than done. When choosing our adornments we have to manage to be both pleasing to the eye, prettier than the girl next door AND avoid unnecessary attention. This can mean anything from a bag of toys that to the onlooker is just a laptop case of briefcase, to a sexy black dress hidden under a bulky jacket with fake (or real) glasses.

These all may seem like small things but they take a lot of effort and a lot of time and thought. Whether we are coming to you or you to us there are many steps taken for your benefit both security wise and of course personal wise.

LE is far more interested in capturing the girls believe it or not. Girls can lead to Pimps or agencies. The ladies lead to bigger fish or even the ability to get and give false references.

Understand the chances of something going wrong on the ladies side is far more likely. If a gentleman goes to the police and says an escort attacked him it is taken quite seriously. If a beaten raped and upset escort goes to the police and says a client attacked her she is often treated as if she was the aggressor.

There are many accounts of serial killers that are infamous that have gone on "prostitute" killing spree's. Only one real infamous account of a serial killer that was harming her patrons.

Not to sound misogynistic but take away all weapons and clothing consider the type of women in question. If a man was to become aggressive few would be able to defend themselves.

Though we as ladies do our best to account for your safety we also need to account for our own. There are many stories where ladies have found aggressive clients and without help from legal sources or the ability to protect themselves end up seeking out less desirable protection. such as a pimp.

Anyway just my thoughts on the subject. Originally Posted by JayceeRivers

JaceeRivers, I thank you and that was exactly what I was hoping to hear. thank you. As I mentioned before, I am very aware of the risk you ladies have to endure in the hobby. As a father and human being, I do not want to see anyone hurt or put at risk. You mentioning the subject of delegating links to customers is what I do with my encounters also. I am very aware that that might make sharing information difficult, but it's better than having the wrong persons see it. We all take risks and I we try to mitigate those risks. Appreciate your response. Be well and play safe!

I've been a member of P411 for several years and keep my okays updated. It is the only source I use when acquiring a provider. If this is not good enough then I move on to the next provider.

I use this site for information and may entertain readers with a few fantasy reviews. I never try use my reviews as a source of verification. The best part about this site is that you get a chance to meet new friends from different parts of the country. And then I check to see if they have a P411 account for future meetings when I travel, or entice them to come to my town. I never had a provider ask for more than my P411 okays. Originally Posted by thecooldude

Had a number of discussions concerning P411. I became a part of eccie first and do enjoy this site. The reason why I don't participate in both is simply that being linked to two sites simply doubles my exposure. What site will get busted next? Just my way of limiting my exposure. If it costs me dates, I'll live with it.
When I talked about reviews, my point was that the ladies on this site can see not only that reviews were done, but with who. In other words, in some communities, they know one another. If I was the ladies, I would not trust reviews either. My brain is still trying to get the blood rushing back to my brain anyway!

Thanks for the reply. Sinsoftheflesh. The fact that she can see that I have done reviews (forget the quality of the review), tells her that I have reviewed. Can a provider see who I reviewed which then gives her the ability to inquire from her? Can the provider also see links to comments potential guests makes on this site? Those can shed light to the character of the guy.
However, I do tend to go towards ladies who have a longer running history because I can have more confidence with them. But if God forbid, you got caught and LE started going through your information, will that information put others in jeopardy? It would be great if we all had a few "special friends" that we played with. However, many have many "special friends" and each one can link us to each other's.
As for P411, please no offense to that site but we all know of sites where the participants felt they were safe but it turned out they wern't. I'm just saying putting it out on one site (for me it is here for now), is safer than putting it out on two. Thank you for your response, I learned something I didn't know! Play well and safe. Originally Posted by Hermosa

providers can't see ROS bro. nor can regular members.

however that doesn't mean that providers don't have a fake account that they log into to see ROS or have a hobbyist friend who copy's and pastes it for them etc. I had a provider once tell me she reads ROS of guys she sees while she masterbates, its a major turn on for her.