A repeat of an old, old question : does the attractiveness of the hobbyist matter?

Boy, i hope not! Originally Posted by Doove

oH puhlease you have one of the hottest bods I've ever seen!

Of course your looks matter!!! Geesh what a silly question. Think about it: do you tip an ugly waitress with the same amount as you tip a hot one, even though the service is the same? Of course not.

So, think about it from the hooker's standpoint. When she opens the door, she mostly expects to see kind of a Gene Hackman (you know, old, saggy, looks like a beagle). It's a bonus if you're a Brad Pitt. Oh, she'll still fuck Gene Hackman. But she'll fuck the hell out of Brad Pitt and enjoy every minute of it.

It's always good to be attracted but hey it doesn't matter

oH puhlease you have one of the hottest bods I've ever seen! Originally Posted by Naomi4u

I do ok for myself, but i wouldn't go quite that far, Naomi.

Nevertheless.....

Well if we are talking age...I'd choose a Milf over a teenager/ Beauty is eye of the beholder/

Attractiveness isn't just about physical appearance. Its about personality and how one presents theirself. My exhusband was a big guy and I was very physically attracted to him. If a person has confindence and a good personality then to to me they are very attractive. A guy can look like Brad Pitt and be an arrogant ass and that is the quickest turn off ever

Your question: *Does the attractiveness of a hobbyist matter?*

Honest answer: Hell NO!

We all have flaws. Period! There's not a single person who's perfect.
And any man who comes to me with an inflated ego is someone I'm unattractive to and will never see. They make boring lovers.

The Brad Pitts of this world, in my eyes, are not beautiful men. Rather the Sean Connerys are fucking beautiful!

Give me a man with graying hair a few extra pounds, a man who's lost a limb or been burned while serving his country. A man with an old school soul & personality and that's the man I find beautiful in my eyes. One I'm going to thoroughly enjoy from head to toe!

We gents have always wondered this, year after year. Does it matter if the client is old or fat vs young and/or in shape? Does it make any difference if the client looks like hugh hefner vs. Brad Pitt when he was in his prime?

Older men have flaws. The skin becomes wrinkly, lots of stuff doesn't work as well as it used to, and so forth. Fatter men have flaws. I know this because I'm both, and sometimes I look in the mirror and realize that if I were a young woman, I probably wouldn't sleep with me for free/in a relationship either.

You always hear about the stories where the provider is genuinely attracted to the client. They smile and laugh together and both partners make genuine efforts to please each other. Sessions run well over the billed time increments, and the provider charges a client like this a discounted rate as well.

How do you see it, ladies? Would you rather serve higher paying clients that you dislike, leaving right on the hour, one after another? Or spend more quality time with someone you almost would date without the money involved?

My "little friend" has found a provider like the above at least once, in a foreign country. Her rates were already very low to begin with (about $81 an hour) and they'd laugh and play games and tickle each other. She would fall asleep next to him. So they do exist. But even in that scenario he didn't REALLY know if she liked him, or if she was just an extremely good actress. (even $81/hour was a lot of money in that country, where the average person earned about $250-$500/month) Originally Posted by Habeed

I don't know why any man would care about this issue. Isn't that why we pay for the time and attention? It's not like dating where you actually do have to worry about attraction, looks and chemistry. Paying an escort should free the man from such concerns.

Personally, I arrive for an appt. squeaky clean and polite. That should be enough for any paid encounter. Face it, many of the gals aren't interested in men sexually anyway. So what does it matter what a guy looks like? The only looks they care about are the looks on the dead presidents.

Paying an escort should free the man from such concerns.
Originally Posted by janwalshs

Exactly. Let's not BS ourselves here.

CharlesT,

I hate to tell you this, but the answer for at least one of us is, "Of course I tip the same regardless of looks." And for the same reason mentioned by a number of providers. Attitude and service trump looks every time. To do otherwise would be simple hypocrasy, since I've never been mistaken for Newman, Pitt, Depp, Gere, Redford, Timberlake or anyone of that ilk. And I damn sure don't accept second class treatment on account of factors over which I have no control. The waitress can be the hottest thing going, but if I'm ignorred or condescended to she is going to see it reflected in her tip.

Spicegirl was here lurking, don't hold it against me unless it's a Big Fat
One!! lol

You'd be surprised how Many men DO care about it. There are some men who need their ego's stroked and need to hear how attractive women find them. ESP, in this adult lifestyle where *some* men *think* they're gods gift to women. (cough). Those are men who are insecure sometimes more so than women. Sad but true.

But in general, women are different than men. We don't value *looks* like men do. WE as women value the respect/kindness/gentleness and over all wonderful personality of said gent.

Some of the best lovers can be men whom some don't find the best lookers.

In all honesty. I'll take Fred Couples/Nick Price/ Blake Shelton and Tim McGraw whom I've personally met, to bed and ravish them.
Because those men are fucking beautiful and they don't need their ego stroked.

I don't know why any man would care about this issue. Isn't that why we pay for the time and attention? It's not like dating where you actually do have to worry about attraction, looks and chemistry. Paying an escort should free the man from such concerns.

Personally, I arrive for an appt. squeaky clean and polite. That should be enough for any paid encounter. Face it, many of the gals aren't interested in men sexually anyway. So what does it matter what a guy looks like? The only looks they care about are the looks on the dead presidents. Originally Posted by janwalshs

For me, looks don't matter, but politeness and respectfulness do. Often times a guy who brags about his looks is an asshole. I don't understand the purpose of guys who send pictures of themselves. I mean, I'd PREFER it if the guy didn't look like Jabba the Hutt, but given the choice between a nice, polite Jabba the Hutt and a handsome arrogant guy, I'll take Jabba. I'm not in this business to be selective about the way a client looks. And more often than not, the less attractive men are actually better in bed than the attractive ones.

Ok, what about this scenario - for ladies that are couple friendly, what if you don't find the guy's wife attractive? From what I've seen, women are far more forgiving of a guy's appearance than they are of another woman's.

Of course it matters! As I have always asked...

Would you fuck you?

Because if you wouldn't, chances are no one else would either, at least not for free.