Snuggle up OR not?

James1588's Avatar
Cuddle sessions....I'm interested in adding this to my list of services. Sometimes it isn't sex people are needing as much as nurturing/human touch.

Have you tried a "cuddle" session and how did it play out?

Would you be interested in this type of session? Why?

If you tried it...did it culminate in sex even though that wasn't the plan?

Were you nude, did you bring your PJ's or wear your clothes?

Did you sleep during the session? Was it quiet time or did you talk?

Your perspective appreciated.

Smooches, Alaine Originally Posted by alaine
I've never tried a "cuddle" session as such. However, I can remember several two-hour appointments that ended up being approximately 30 minutes of foreplay and intercourse, and 90 minutes of more or less what you're talking about. Given the context, or course we were naked and in bed. Neither of us slept. It was both "quiet time" and conversation (that is, quiet conversation, really).

I would think that, as a service to offer, there'd be some interest, particularly from old guys like me. The biggest stumbling block I see is that, when a guy is horny and looking to pay for sex, it's easy for him to make a decision about whom to see based on pictures and reviews -- the standard way. I think a guy looking to cuddle and talk would be more interested in a woman's personality, intelligence, and empathy. Those characteristics don't lend themselves well to being recognized in a showcase.

Another caution for the working woman: it seems to me that a prospective cuddle client is much more likely to get clingy. And also to try to weasel free service out of you by email or whatever, since he's looking more for words than friction. Something to keep in mind.

Having said that, at suitable rates, I'd give it a try, when the mood is upon me.
ICU 812's Avatar
Cuddling is a significant part of the multi-hour GFE session. But it is a before and after part. If there is no main show, I might as well stay home.
Cuddling is foreplay, cuddling is afterplay, but I can't see myself paying to get blueballed by a hottie. Maybe this is a service some BBBBBBBW could offer.
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I wouldn't mind cuddle sessions as long as I can fondle some breasts and rub my manhood on and in between her booty and thieghs while spooning using no hands. There have been times where I've been on a business trip and not wanted to be alone for the night. I usually book overnights for that purpose. But a non sex sleepover isn't so bad if she sleeps naked......but that probably wouldn't count and I'd be delaying the inevitable.

I think if I did do a cuddle date......id still want the option of being able to upgrade if I wanted more and wanted the sex. I wouldn't book a cuddle date with a lady just getting creative with her services and maybe booking cuddle dates while she's on the rag or something. Lol. I'd still want the option of changing my mind lol.

I did this before with a few providers. Mostly the deal was for no sex......but touching and digits were fine. When morning comes and morning wood occurs at daybreak that cuddling stuff goes out the window.

But when I'm cuddling I do get better sleep though.


I don't know what the rates might be hourly.......but just to cuddle for a overnight I wouldn't pay anything above 300 or 400 with no sex.
If personalities and chemestry are right then it could be a good time, especially if a little bob marley is playing in the background. I would probably prefer it as part of an extended session and not just spooning for an hour because realistically being that close and feeling the warmth and comfort of a sexy woman is gonna get me horny. Originally Posted by clitlicker7

NICE
Alyssa XOXO's Avatar
While snuggling is great, swaddling is better.

Edit: snuggling under my Axoxo for the umpteenth time. Originally Posted by GlobeSpotter
My Hobby Lobster... I've lost count of how many times already
While we've never met, something tells me Axoxo would cuddle me until I couldn't tell the day of the week, and my pineapples looked like dried raisins...well worth it.
Thanks for all your input.
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  • 08-07-2016, 09:37 PM
Cuddle sessions....I'm interested in adding this to my list of services. Sometimes it isn't sex people are needing as much as nurturing/human touch.

Have you tried a "cuddle" session and how did it play out?

Would you be interested in this type of session? Why?

If you tried it...did it culminate in sex even though that wasn't the plan?

Were you nude, did you bring your PJ's or wear your clothes?

Did you sleep during the session? Was it quiet time or did you talk?

Your perspective appreciated.

Smooches, Alaine Originally Posted by alaine
I prefer over night for that exact reason, but I would not book JUST for the cuddle if that is what you are asking. I like to hit it, take a long slow recovery until I can hit it again and then go to sleep as you say Spooning or some other form of contact. At some point there is separation for the sake of a good sound sleep and I generally wake with morning wood so would love to take care of that and then cuddle or shower fondle - depends upon the partner and if they are looking for release or just IOPing to provide my experience ... some girl like to draw the line between working and save the enjoying for RW experiences.
Cuddle for pay hit the news a few years ago. You probably won't get the clientele you're looking for here, but here are some links that might give you more info, if you're looking to diversify.

http://health.usnews.com/health-news...uddle-with-you
http://thesnugglebuddies.com/
http://www.time2cuddle.com/
Cuddle sessions....I'm interested in adding this to my list of services. Sometimes it isn't sex people are needing as much as nurturing/human touch.

Have you tried a "cuddle" session and how did it play out?

Would you be interested in this type of session? Why?

If you tried it...did it culminate in sex even though that wasn't the plan?

Were you nude, did you bring your PJ's or wear your clothes?

Did you sleep during the session? Was it quiet time or did you talk?

Your perspective appreciated.

Smooches, Alaine Originally Posted by alaine
Hello Alaine,
What a great idea! Especially for the older gents whom simply
are in need of human touch.
I had a "guest" whom was in his late 70's,
he just lost his wife of over fifty years,
and really just desired to "have and to hold"....
Congrats Alaine, you've touched a niche, soon others shall follow.

Warmest Regards,
Angelina Jones
"Desiderata"
{see my Eccie Profile & Ads}
and reviews on TER ID#276928


I get a lot out of cuddling during and after a session. It helps me leave a session physically and emotionally satisfied.
Keyhole Arc Blow's Avatar
Cuddling mixed with sexy times is great. Just cuddling though would be a no go for me. Pretty sure I'm in the minority here but cuddles and deep conversations are far more intimate to me than me slamming my meat missile into a chicks ham wallet or chocolate starfish, so if a provider wanted me to go over to just hang out I might misunderstand the situation unless she clarifies stuff.
joesmo888's Avatar
I love cuddling with a BBW.. yum yum. feeling that soft and warm body against me