Ok - Let’s Get Honest

Depends on what info is being shared . Assuming it allowed, last 4 digits of guys phone number would be pretty useful obviously. Various distinguishing elements from screening or maybe ascertained for the bad session. Depends on particulars of course. My sense is that blacklists or whatever you want to call them is to warns about guys who get violent, rip them off, stalk, just very bad behavior etc. The more gossipy stuff (as often is posted here)such as which clients are real ugly or just very bad in bed would overwhelm
any board lol plus for most ladies those aren't showstoppers

Mmmmm

I'm sure it's phone number based in some places, I don't see how it wouldn't be. When I've given references, they take my number ask whatever provider and go off of that.

I'm sure it's phone number based in some places, I don't see how it wouldn't be. When I've given references, they take my number ask whatever provider and go off of that. Originally Posted by Meridien

I think I’d consider 3 hours with BBG if she’d tell me what they say about all you bastards.

I think I’d consider 3 hours with BBG if she’d tell me what they say about all you bastards. Originally Posted by George1990

I mean… that’s a little weird. You’re willing to pay a 3 hour session to hear gossip about other men who you’ll never meet in real life from this board about how they fuck and get sucked by the chick you’re paying to see?

I'm sure it's phone number based in some places, I don't see how it wouldn't be. When I've given references, they take my number ask whatever provider and go off of that. Originally Posted by Meridien

Agreed, and it’s super useless system. I have 3 apps with 3 different numbers I use - a primary, a secondary, and a last ditch effort. My primary may have failed labeling me as a jerk or whatever, but secondary I managed to see my choice lady and she thinks im great.

As I said…. They don’t know shit lol.

I mean… that’s a little weird. You’re willing to pay a 3 hour session to hear gossip about other men who you’ll never meet in real life from this board about how they fuck and get sucked by the chick you’re paying to see? Originally Posted by FreeLancer40

We’re participants in a gossip forum paying for an assortment of things, many with some very sketchy partners and I’m the weird one? And let’s admit it, I question the judgement of most of you based on your endorsement of some providers. Though Freelancer gets a pass because we seem to drift towards the same people. Gotta keep myself entertained hearing about all the failures which is a huge boost for my ego. I never fancied myself as being well-endowed, but who knew?! Porn will fuck with your sense of scale. Why pay for FS if you can’t get through the BJ? Not FL, but many of you. That’s the word on the street.

I highly doubt she would give up that info, she has more class and style than that. I agree with Freelance that does seem weird. But hey if thats what floats your boat ,let the high seas roll.staybsafe gents

In my personal or hobby life - I have never once had a discussion with a woman about the performance of other men she fucks or has fucked. There are few things I could care less about. But I am with Scoot - if that is your thing - good for you.

I will say that if I had to fuck you guys for a living - I would never complain that anyone was too small or couldn’t last very long. This is a business for these ladies - the less work the better I would think - so that is a little suss.

In my personal or hobby life - I have never once had a discussion with a woman about the performance of other men she fucks or has fucked. There are few things I could care less about. But I am with Scoot - if that is your thing - good for you.

I will say that if I had to fuck you guys for a living - I would never complain that anyone was too small or couldn’t last very long. This is a business for these ladies - the less work the better I would think - so that is a little suss. Originally Posted by Southgate18

I can’t help what providers choose to tell me of offer for details. Sometimes those are the details that come out over dinner or drinks. Though I do find the “let’s be honest” judgement amusing. “Suss” is playing the AMP and STG roulette.

Dinner and drinks over " cocktails"

What a waste of time and $

Pretty sure the providers use it the same way we do. What guys have a reputation of not showing up, being disrespectful, demanding, or downright dangerous. And which ones are actually a literal pleasure to spend time with. Same as with providers, we too can change numbers etc.
but I am guessing that when a lady is screening you and asks for an Eccie handle, it can be a very quick way to see how you have treated other ladies. Some mongers only see reviewed providers, and don’t TOFTT. And some ladies may also do the same. Who knows(?).

What a waste of time and $ Originally Posted by Warrenajeffers

Not a waste of time. And no money exchanged. And clearly since I never had PA, there’s no white knighting as you all like to say. Treat them like people and it’s a different experience. As you and others like to say, YMMV.

Free dinner and drinks girls will tell you anything except those that value their clients.