To clarify the question.
Let's say the guy is a normal guy.
Let's say that you just heard a rumor.
What kind of rumor would be enough for you not to see him?
Originally Posted by Fast Gunn
Thanks for clarifying. That was a highly confusing question at the beginning, and I think the poll results may not be that meaningful, as the choices don't really correspond to the actual question you were asking... but anyhow...
With all rumors, I consider the source and balance it against all other sources.
So let's say a gent comes to me and gives me 3 good references from respected providers I know and trust who all say he's totally safe and just an all around gentleman. And meanwhile crazyho_xyz who is known for being a drama mama and just got a negative review from said gent posts an alert about how he short changed her and tried BBFS. Well, who am I gonna believe?
I would be willing to see that gent, but might take extra precautions, such as counting the donation upfront, and being VERY careful to watch for signs of a possible BBFS attempt, but on balance, I'd see him.
I look at each rumor on a case by case basis and judge to the best of my ability based on all the relevant facts.