I agree she should have offered you a portion of your money back because the lack of enthusiasm was her being tired by her own admission. The thing about offering another session as recoupment is the person may not want to chance this experience with the same person again. I find it funny when I see review specials for a discount or extra time on a next visit. I always ask myself, "what if the first visit is terrible?" Originally Posted by Richard FitzwellWell I spoke with him and he assured me I did my part and had nothing to feel bad abt. And he would be back. I think I just got him a little to excited to soon... But my biggest concern was him feeling like I was rushing him. U personally know I'm not a "wham bam thank u ma'am" type of provider. My services are kind of "unrushed" to a certain extent. So that's why I offered him another session. After speaking with him I don't doubt he won't return...
Well I spoke with him and he assured me I did my part and had nothing to feel bad abt. And he would be back. I think I just got him a little to excited to soon... But my biggest concern was him feeling like I was rushing him. U personally know I'm not a "wham bam thank u ma'am" type of provider. My services are kind of "unrushed" to a certain extent. So that's why I offered him another session. After speaking with him I don't doubt he won't return... Originally Posted by eleganttif
Nah Tiff, my comments was more so in reference to the OP because his date said she was tired so there is the reason for the lack of connection with her. I know you are the real deal! Offering time is cool if like is your case the guy was super excited or whatever, but like in the OPs situation he may not want to risk another bad connection with her again. Originally Posted by Richard FitzwellYea that's risky. But sometimes as providers we over exert ourselves so I get her being tired. And when I am tired I barely have a "connection" with my damn self let alone anyone else.