WHAT DUMBASS LET HIS WIFE GET HIS PHONE AND MY NUMBER?

And now I am kind of worried that she might of gotten into his eccie account as this all happened about 8 hours after the review was written.....

But it is speculation....not confirmed........ Originally Posted by Cayla

It's certainly possible though. I've heard of it happening on other boards.

Other providers here (if any) who have seen this guy should probably be wary of any PMs purporting to be from his account until they can verify it.

Cheers,

bcg

Thanks BCG,
Helpful info for me and I am sure some dogs on here too. Any yes, I "kinda" got caught, which has nothing to do with this thread. But here with new name and laying low for a while. Was on aspd since '01 and hobbying a while before that. So.....cover your tracks dogs and hobby on.

Gee, I didn't think I would have to explain that I don't care why a guy cheats on his wife, nor was I suggesting that every guy that cheats does so because his wife is a lousy fuck, or she's at fault somehow.....The major thing I was suggesting that the guys need to pay more attention to securing the homebase when they decide to venture out into foreign territories.....If you (BCG) and Lily only garnered from my post that I was even remotely suggesting that the wife is at fault because he was seeing providers, then you seriously missed the point of this thread.....Oh well.....

Well it goes both ways, i had a providers husband give me a call one early morning berating me asking who i was and why was i calling his wife. I politely said "you should ask your wife that question, not me". Then he got heated and threatened me, lol. Never heard from him/her again, sometimes i feel like giving her a buzz just for shits and giggles.

Guys, you are right, I did choose to be a provider, however my question was "why should I have to do with this and not bash the guy or the woman?"

In my private life, I would tell the woman exactly what they wanted to hear.

And now I am kind of worried that she might of gotten into his eccie account as this all happened about 8 hours after the review was written.....

But it is speculation....not confirmed........

Muah
Cayla Originally Posted by Cayla

Part of me is surprised that he hasn't chimed in on this thread, but the other part says he's probably so embarrassed and knows that none of the ladies will want to see him anymore that he'll change his ECCIE handle and we'll never hear from him again.

In answering the question: "Why Do You Hobby"... I responded:

Originally Posted by MrGiz:
I am a Lucky Dawg... I have an SO at home who will drop her undies (if she's wearing any) to the floor with barely a nod and and a wink! But I am a dawg who wants to piss on any bush I want. The hobby allows me to have unrestricted sex with outstanding women of my choice.... who wouldn't ordinarily give me the time of day! I Luv Variety!!

Even before I was in the eXXXtremely fortunate relationship I now enjoy.... I was married to a woman who was always ready to fuck at the drop of a hint! And it was good stuff!! She just so happened to be cRaZy.... Cest' La Vie....

Just because some DUMBASS was careless enough to get busted by a hurt, disappointed, and surprised mate at home.... doesn't necessarily make the little woman at home a Lousy Lay!! In fact.... those lucky dawgs that do have horny & willing SO's at home , are fucking up even more, when they get caught... than the poor bastards with the lousy lays at home!! They are at risk of losing much more!! There are many other mangy dawgs like me, that just luv the variety that the hobby offers.... they need to be careful too! The last one to blame, is the generous working provider, willing to make a dawgs life that much better!

Giz

I get these calls ALL THE TIME, lol.

I just say "it must have been a misdial or wrong number , because I dont know that number."


Cayla, you assumed the lady on the phone was telling the truth. She may not have been his SO. For what ever reason it might not have been. He could have just strepped away from his phone..

Gee, I didn't think I would have to explain that I don't care why a guy cheats on his wife, nor was I suggesting that every guy that cheats does so because his wife is a lousy fuck, or she's at fault somehow.....The major thing I was suggesting that the guys need to pay more attention to securing the homebase when they decide to venture out into foreign territories.....If you (BCG) and Lily only garnered from my post that I was even remotely suggesting that the wife is at fault because he was seeing providers, then you seriously missed the point of this thread.....Oh well..... Originally Posted by BIG C

I wouldn't dare speak for Lily (and we all know very well she can speak for herself). If I missed the point of anything... It wasn't the first time and it won't be the last, I'm sure.

Cheers,

bcg

In life, untoward events transpire. Sometimes through carelessness, sometimes despite best efforts. Human beings wish to explain all events as preventable error in order to feel safe and give palatable taste to guilty pleasure. Perhaps man careless, perhaps wife just very smart. Perhaps wife bad woman, perhaps man bad husband. Marriage does not end because of single mistake.
If one embark on life of crime, wise thief budget jail time in future. Likewise, if undertaken for long, discovery of infidelity inevitable. Client need not be surprised, provider may as well expect. Occupational hazard on both accounts.

As always, well spoken and with much wisdom, Mr.Chan. You're my favorite fortune cookie.

Gee, I didn't think I would have to explain that I don't care why a guy cheats on his wife, nor was I suggesting that every guy that cheats does so because his wife is a lousy fuck, or she's at fault somehow.....The major thing I was suggesting that the guys need to pay more attention to securing the homebase when they decide to venture out into foreign territories.....If you (BCG) and Lily only garnered from my post that I was even remotely suggesting that the wife is at fault because he was seeing providers, then you seriously missed the point of this thread.....Oh well..... Originally Posted by BIG C

Damn Skippy.

Take care of Your Business, I'll take care of mine.
GND called it. Don't throw us under the bus because you are sloppy.

Well, I may have assumed that the woman on the phone was his wife, but it still remains that I am getting harrassing phone calls.

When a stupid provider gets obsessed and does this, or "outs" a gent, it is bad, but when it happens to us, the general consensous is that we should cover for them........Damn, when do we get to be normal???????

Why do we always have to be the better person??????? Originally Posted by Cayla

Humble amateur philosopher/fictional detective never cease to appreciate risks taken, chaos endured and abuse suffered by lady who make lifes work pleasure of men.
However must respectfully remind lady, whose many delights I have yet to enjoy, you do not have a normal job. If normal life desired, two lives necessary.
Only have to be better person if higher path chosen,but on higher path is respect and greater reward. Unworthy self and all gentleman clients both present and future can clearly see benefit in association with provider who conduct business in most professional manner.Good reputation most valuable asset of all. Also necessitate fewer name changes. Only suggestion might be, if clumsy client called out, best done among ladies in private forum.

If every foolish act done each day were published in newspaper,there would be no trees. And everyone would be afraid to read the newspaper

However must respectfully remind lady, whose many delights I have yet to enjoy, you do not have a normal job. If normal life desired, two lives necessary. Originally Posted by Mr.Chan

If a normal life is desired, it's necessary to have only one life, and that one life needs to be conducted strictly within society's norms. Once you begin to lead multiple lives, and/or one or more of them involves behavior that society doesn't approve of, you run the risk of embarrassment (or worse) when your cover is blown.

bcg has mentioned in the past that, in a former lifetime, his occupation was the malpractice of law, an occupation that he threw in the shitcan about 20+ years ago and has since never looked back. But when he was engaged in active malpractice, a large part of his workday consisted in rendering assistance to people leading multiple lives, at least one of which transgressed the norms of "polite" society, whose problems arose because those lives began to intersect to the embarrassment of whoever was seeking my help.*

Or as I used to tell my clients: "The fact that you want me to help you now is proof that you've fucked your life up beyond my likely ability to help you."

Cheers,

bcg

* A problem that even effects lawyers. The most memorable event of my entire legal career was the day that the wife of another lawyer barged into our office and had a loud (very loud) and quite public (i.e., in front of other lawyers, support staff, and clients) meltdown. Apparently, her daughter had separated from her (the daughter's) husband, and moved in with her mom and the other lawyer. In the space of about a week (as far as we could figure out from what we heard about the divorce trial months afterwards), the other lawyer in my office managed to get both his wife's daughter and their live-in maid pregnant. But I digress...

WELL WITH ALL THAT SAID : MEN PROTECT YOUR ASSESTS !!!

I hobby for something different every once in a while, and because guys are dogs. That being said I dont save the providers numbers in my phone. As long as the internet is around I can find them when I need them.