Daddy

Not into calling any other man not my daddy well 'daddy' even for roleplay lol or papi.

Although, I will be your daddy, Baby, but I wont be your...baby daddy.

I had a provider do this recently and she was very mature... It just did not sound right to my ears... It was a bit of a turn-off...

I totally enjoy being called Daddy and my last girlfriend got into calling me that. It is not used in an incest type way, At least with me.

It is all psychological for me. "Daddy” is an authoritative word affirming the caretaking position, the role of father is head of house, the boss. I enjoy it because it buffs my ego without pretention.It bumps my ego and I think for many women, it psychologically reaffirms to herself her need to feel a man's power (virility).

I'm sure everyone has their reasons why they like or don't like it.

I know and can understand why there's a wide range of opinion on this, but the term does not bother me in the least. It's just a term of affection, similar to "baby".

On the other hand, I don't like being called Baby either.

I don't think calling someone/being called "Daddy" necessarily denotes age or incest play. I'm not into age or incest play. But I do enjoy other forms of role playing. I like calling out "Daddy" from time to time; I try to discern if my partner is into it or not. And sometimes someone explicitly asks: "Call me Daddy." I'll oblige if I'm into it.

My current gf is 44, and I'm 54. She let's 'daddy' slip sometimes... and it totally jangles my nerves. It seems weird because I don't feel old. I still run a couple miles 3 times a week. I feel better than I did at 30. I'm not even opposed to role play. I guess vanity still has a hold...

Forgive me if I'm off topic but isn't there a Daddy/Baby girl type fetish? The "daddy" of the relationship has complete control over the "baby girl" while spoiling her. At least that's the gist of it I got from other websites.

I've had some clients enjoy being called Daddy. I take it in a stride (reminding myself throughout the session that it's just play). But I typically watch what I say and take cues from the gent at the time.

I played a daddy/daughter role it was weird but I went with it lol but calling someone daddy I don't mind its how its thrown out there

I hate it-- even though I have a sugar baby / sugar daddy relationship going. Thankfully, my SB doesn't call me daddy. The ones who call me daddy are the girls who THINK they a sugar babies when they are nothing more than providers. For one, calling me daddy gives me the creeps. Yeah, I know with some of the younger girls our age difference can be upwards of 25 to even 30 years, but it still creeps me out. For one, it makes me feel old. Even though I'm just shy of 50, I kinda think of myself still in terms of being in my 20s. Second, it almost sounds too dirty as in I shouldn't be doing this. I hate guilt trips. I'm a big into the role playing fantasy but I've never been too enamored with the student / teacher or younger girl / older man scenario. I actually like the girls I'm with to be somewhat mature and intelligent. The perfect girl for me is 18-21 y.o. with a hot body, maturity, and can hold an intelligent conversation. Not to many of those girls around. Usually, those ladies are in the late 20s/early 30s. Originally Posted by Cpalmson

This just about sums it up for me as well. I'm just shy of 60, and while I don't think of myself of being in my 20's, it just is creepy to me. Nor do I like being called honey, sugar, baby, sweetie, or anything else other that whatever name I gave when I booked. Surely you ladies can remember it for the brief time we are together instead of sounding like a 70's porn flick.

This just about sums it up for me as well. I'm just shy of 60, and while I don't think of myself of being in my 20's, it just is creepy to me. Nor do I like being called honey, sugar, baby, sweetie, or anything else other that whatever name I gave when I booked. Surely you ladies can remember it for the brief time we are together instead of sounding like a 70's porn flick. Originally Posted by rcinokc

LOL, I have never called anyone, over the age of 13, baby, sugar, sweetie etc !

I'm not in to age play (I'm not even close to being 40) and I prefer to hookup/play/P4P/date/fuck etc.. females that are at least within +/- 10 years my age. But, when I hear the word daddy/papi it drives me to the edge. I even enjoy being called daddy in a flirtatious way outside the bedroom.

I can understand the aversion if thought of from an incestuous perspective. But when used as a cute nickname for an older guy or even the dominant personality, it can be hot. I was nailing a much younger gf a few years back and in the middle of a good pounding she screamed out "give it to me daddy" and I blew instantly. It was very hot. Originally Posted by saminspring

yes!

I used to feel weird about calling a lover "Daddy" until I met my boyfriends off here. They initiated the name for themselves and now it cums naturally for me to say "please let me cum on your cock, Daddy." And tell them "I love you Daddy, thank you." After they spoil me with a surprise. Now it turns me on.