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+1 on ur response everyone has their own turn ons so who am I to judge. Hahaha!
... once you are at my door and I open it, you can easily and without any obligation or discomfort say, no thanks not my type and you won’t hear a peep out of me , and you walk away w every bit of your wallet you came to me with.... Originally Posted by Ez5417That’s funny. Once EZ opens the door, many, many, many thoughts will go through your mind (and continue long after you leave), but “no thanks” isn’t one of them.
...I’ve fallen victim to this, sometimes it feels like it is more than a gamble than anything else. I understand limited pics for sake of anonymity, I also get that we shouldn’t expect constantly updated pics, but man, some pics because of age, or significantly changed lifestyles (tacos y cervazas, in my case) just leave me bummed out when reality hits home.
And I’m sorry for those that are constantly duped by the cat-fishing.... Originally Posted by Ez5417
...This is an interesting point to me. On one hand, I suppose any membership site has the right to restrict, limit or police membership, but what are the rules of site usage that have been violated? Is it not overstepping to police morality issues that did not occur on this site? Seems naive to think that limiting or eliminating access to this site in the guise of protecting the “community” actually has any impact. I may be wrong, maybe everyone is happy and getting along now.
Maybe one day the mods will focus more on this like that P site does w proof of recent photos instead of what ladies are sharing w each other in their text messages and on twitter and banning due to reasons that are not connected to Eccie at all, other than that they are registered on here.... Originally Posted by Ez5417
Speaking for myself, I can’t even risk any photos being out there, I do solely rely on my reviews and word play to lure one in. HOWEVER, and this is a big however, I have this guarantee policy in place. Since I have nothing out there except for the few that have received photos privately after screening, I provide a foolproof no questions asked, and definitely no drama attached promise that, once you are at my door and I open it, you can easily and without any obligation or discomfort say, no thanks not my type and you won’t hear a peep out of me , and you walk away w every bit of your wallet you came to me with.
With how secretive and private I am, that’s the best I can offer at this point. But I know many girls that put up fake photos that are similar to themselves or just massively botch the shit out of their photos so that it won’t look like them IRL. Either to lure you in or keep themselves relatively private. I can’t even do that. I can’t ever fathom the thought of a guy saying, ummm that’s not you or I expected better etc and then feeling sadly obligated to go along w date and it just being awkward all around.
I do however do a bit research w each guy that has taken the risk w me and asks them under what circumstances helped them form a decision etc. most answer: your reviews, and the comments the gents write. (Much appreciated and does not go unnoticed)
But yes, always keep in mind, not a fiber of my being will give you a hard time for rejecting me. Maybe because it has yet to happen. I’ve been very ( and graciously) fortunate in the looks and skill/ experience department so I’ve been blessed w each one being a “yes” I’m staying. It would be cool to see ladies who instead of posting botched photos or fake photos or ten year old photos just not post any of them at all and rely wholly on their reviews and feedback thus providing a promise policy of hey, you don’t like what you see, no prob no charge not hard feelings have a great day and hope you find someone to fill your spot wo any drama from either party.
I also hear about women expecting something in return (typically a partial time wasted fee) after being turned down, I for one don’t agree with it. For obvious reasons.
Oh well. In a perfect world. But yes FYI,,for those that are scared of my mysterious reputation, you have this in place. And it’s now in writing. ( here) lmao.
And I’m sorry for those that are constantly duped by the cat-fishing. Maybe one day the mods will focus more on this like that P site does w proof of recent photos instead of what ladies are sharing w each other in their text messages and on twitter and banning due to reasons that are not connected to Eccie at all, other than that they are registered on here.
Originally Posted by Ez5417