Newbie friendly list

Exactly. Your last paragraph sums up this thread. My great idea. Newbie friendly ladies that do an amazing job easing the newbie in, need some kind of seal. It would be a seal only few providers would bear, because that seal would serve homage to men who have TOFTT.
First off, I'm also a newbie seeking my first plunge but I would have to disagree with you on some items.

1. The newbie-friendly section would be nice but I like using the search function.

2. I like your idea of implementing a legend of sort to categorize our potentials.

3. It's really not a sense of "fucking your way up the fuckchain" to get to the nicer looking ladies. (You all look banging Ladies so don't take that out of context) You are missing the point of newbie friendly. What that means is that these particular Ladies are willing to take a risk of new clientele that could easily be a LE, dipshit, or even possibly a person seeking to do bodily harm. We are UNVERIFIED. Look at it like a safety net for the Ladies. Originally Posted by sabre692

Sabre, I totally agree with you. I'm new to the hobby, and as a new, verified provider, I don't feel comfortable being newbie friendly. I am provider reference and p411 friendly, however, if a guy won't take the first step and get p411, and just wants me to "trust him", I can't. There's a lot at stake. I am screening as best I know how, and with caution, but in my limited experience, it seems that the newbies who haven't seen anyone yet, and won't get p411, don't want to give much, if any, information at all, and then I'm "the bitch" and they'll go "find someone better". Ummmmok... go right ahead.. with an attitude like that, I'm glad I declined. It's scary out there, and ladies need to always trust their instincts.. that's why we were given instincts.

I don't consider it fucking up the fuckchain, either. I think we, as providers, take the steps we have to take by becoming verified, which isn't all that easy by the way... so it's up to the hobbiests to take their step and get p411 or TOFTT.

A legend would be nice, or you can do what others have done for a long time - use the search function, look in your region at the ladies posting and read their signatures or websites... get to know them...
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I actually own the domain names www.newbiefriendlyproviders.com, www.newbyfriendlyproviders.com, www.newbyfriendlyprovider.com, and www.newbiefriendlyprovider.com, and I would LOVE to put something together so the Newby Friendly ladies could list themselves on one site.

The only problem is, I have lots of ideas (and domains!), but no time or spare staff to work on them.

One of these days though.....

Warmest regards,
Gina

www.preferred411.com
Awesome idea Gina! Sign me up if you ever get it going.

I love breaking in Newbies and feel I have done my fair share over the years introducing new guys into the hobby. I do it for my sisters as I talk to them and tell them the do's and don'ts and the best ways to get put on the DNS list. I've had success stories such as seeing a total newbie who years later became a mod on ASPD. Some guys, I never heard from again anywhere, maybe they didn't like me or the experience.

Only problem though, since it's hard to screen the noobs, is I have a few hoops that have to be jumped through prior to actually going on a date. On the positive side, if all works well, you will have a solid reference from a known provider. On the negative side, if it doesn't work well, yes - you would have wasted some time.
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Newbie? I guess i qualify as a "newbie" because I can only manage to see a provider three to five times a year. I rarely do reviews by my personal chioce. That alone makes me appear as a new one (or be invisable) to the lovely ladies in the area. The hobbyists that are seeking a first encounter should realise that some information has to be provided if they expect to see a lady with experience and the desire to please. when I select a lady I would not meet her if she did not require verification that i am in fact a sane and amiable hobbyist. 411 is an excellent place to start the process..
The only problem is, I have lots of ideas (and domains!), but no time or spare staff to work on them.

One of these days though... Originally Posted by GinaXXX
looking for any newbie VOLUNTEERS?
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so how do i get a higher status? i dont want the girls who want the noobs, i want girls with big boobs.
so how do i get a higher status? i dont want the girls who want the noobs, i want girls with big boobs. Originally Posted by perozdero
LMAO
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MPCatch - if having your attitude makes you a man ..... more like Neanderthal. The hobby like most things that are worth it - take effort and research. Its not handed to you on a platter. I do not hobby that often, and have yet to be turned away from a lady I have approached Its not what you say its how you say it