First off, I'm also a newbie seeking my first plunge but I would have to disagree with you on some items.
1. The newbie-friendly section would be nice but I like using the search function.
2. I like your idea of implementing a legend of sort to categorize our potentials.
3. It's really not a sense of "fucking your way up the fuckchain" to get to the nicer looking ladies. (You all look banging Ladies so don't take that out of context) You are missing the point of newbie friendly. What that means is that these particular Ladies are willing to take a risk of new clientele that could easily be a LE, dipshit, or even possibly a person seeking to do bodily harm. We are UNVERIFIED. Look at it like a safety net for the Ladies.
Originally Posted by sabre692
Sabre, I totally agree with you. I'm new to the hobby, and as a new, verified provider, I don't feel comfortable being newbie friendly. I am provider reference and p411 friendly, however, if a guy won't take the first step and get p411, and just wants me to "trust him", I can't. There's a lot at stake. I am screening as best I know how, and with caution, but in my limited experience, it seems that the newbies who haven't seen anyone yet, and won't get p411, don't want to give much, if any, information at all, and then I'm "the bitch" and they'll go "find someone better". Ummmmok... go right ahead.. with an attitude like that, I'm glad I declined. It's scary out there, and ladies need to always trust their instincts.. that's why we were given instincts.
I don't consider it fucking up the fuckchain, either. I think we, as providers, take the steps we have to take by becoming verified, which isn't all that easy by the way... so it's up to the hobbiests to take their step and get p411 or TOFTT.
A legend would be nice, or you can do what others have done for a long time - use the search function, look in your region at the ladies posting and read their signatures or websites... get to know them...