Making Strap On Play Easier

I can vouch for Ezmerelda's ability with her harness and her toys. (wink wink) Looking forward to your next visit!!

MMMM, there is also the position where you have him slouch in a large chair (recliners sometimes work well for this) with his ass on the edge or hanging off the edge a little. You are on your knees infront of the chair, with a towel or pillow beneith them. In this position, you have access to all the important stuff, and he can watch while you make him take it.

Thanks Annabelle! I love strap on play; to give a man the gift of having someone inside of them is delirious for me. But it is a bit, not difficult, but awkward for me. You hit the nail on the head; it is the thrusting. It is an alien-feeling move for me.

I don’t know about standing, man doggie. I just don’t know how sexy a step stool would be in the bedroom! I think I’ll try standing LAZY, man doggie. Originally Posted by OliviaHoward

You tart you.

Annabel Lee,

Lady, You know the funniest thing, i have never been taken by a woman with my own harness

damn.


and lol at the fcuking like a woman. Originally Posted by Ezmerelda

lesbo feeldoe, it's in my top 10. Had a client go on and on and on and on about how much she loved tribbing and was not into dildo or strap on. Well, yeah tribbing's great but it's the skin thing (for me) that makes it so hot. One date, I pulled out my feeldoe, did the Al Pacino impersonation - "Say hello to my little friend" and ...well, feeldoe tribbing is her thing now. Another individual successfully perverted, erm I mean enlightened.

You tart you. Originally Posted by Marcus Aurelius

Hey Marcus,

It's nice to have a man of antiquity here in these parts! Other then calling Olivia a tart, which she is , do you have anything else to add to this topic?

Don't tell me you haven't thought about it.

Elisabeth (I'm practicing up on my smiley use today!)

lesbo feeldoe, it's in my top 10. Had a client go on and on and on and on about how much she loved tribbing and was not into dildo or strap on. Well, yeah tribbing's great but it's the skin thing (for me) that makes it so hot. One date, I pulled out my feeldoe, did the Al Pacino impersonation - "Say hello to my little friend" and ...well, feeldoe tribbing is her thing now. Another individual successfully perverted, erm I mean enlightened. Originally Posted by babee

Damn. You taught me a new word! "tribbing"

Thank you!

Sincerely,
Elisabeth

PPL, you got that right. I’m just not a man so doing the man type things just isn’t natural for me. Besides, domesticaly, I’m a subbie all the time with my man in general. Originally Posted by OliviaHoward

Here Olivia states

Besides, domesticaly, I’m a subbie all the time with my man in general.

Sorry Olivia, I'm not picking on you.
I find this interesting because I wouldn't find this play to be dom or sub at all.
Sex to many people must be about power. I don't understand it but that doesn't make it unimportant. Yes that statement was too simplistic.
I would believe coaching or perhaps watching a video would explain the pelvic thrust maneuver. I've seen videos where women are using strapons with each other and perhaps only 10% know how to do it properly.
Personally I've been quite vanilla with providers. However, when I was married we did most everything.
I must say that I was surprised to see this and other threads here. Women can be catty to each other but men will get out the branding iron.

Never mind!

Never mind! Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers

I read your post before you removed it. Why in the world would you say NM?

tribbing???? anyone care to enlighten me?

tribbing???? anyone care to enlighten me? Originally Posted by texassail508

rubbing bare vaginas together.

I didn't know either. www.urbandictionary.com is your friend.

Hmnnn... if any of the ladies in the Fort Worth area need practice... well... pm me...

It is the whole gender bender thing and the feeldoe is the way to go. Although I love the visual of the strap on.

Luck Jack,

Hey there, sailor. Nice to see you in these parts!!!

Hugs,
Elisabeth

P.S. Note to Elisabeth: Need to use the feeldoe in "that" way!!!

This type of play can be very hot with the right partner. I think they really have to enjoy fucking and using the strap on or a feldoe. There have been some great suggestion in this thread.