When I receive a tip or gift up front I am beyond touched and grateful. The personal gifts I've received are fantastic, you guys have really hit it out of the park down here in the south.
Tips (whether up front or after) are touching as well and also make my ego swell a little
. If you tip in advance, it's because you *know* I'm going to give you exceptional service. If you tip afterwards, well it's like a standing ovation.
That being said: I NEVER expect a tip and I am not disappointed when I don't receive one. I'm just happy to make your acquaintance and give you a toe curling good time