BBBJ and DATY as more than just sex

As with NachoN..I also get commented on how soft my lips are..wheather wrapped round the shaft...or lickin on the kitty...that's because I really LOVE it...and it shows in my bbbj's..and in daty...I make it a sexual experience.. not just an oral experience....you have to enjoy what you do or it will show....either in relationship or hobby...

You're making me want to cum to Kansas City!!! :-). Of course I do love to repay with some great DATY as well. :-).~

@angusranch....yes i do

if u enjoy it!!! i say let us do it....couse i love giveing bbbj..... Originally Posted by SexyKaylen

i love giveing bbbjcimnqns....the best ever Originally Posted by SexyKaylen

And I must say you are very good at it. I think it's time to meet up again soon.

I Love to DATY and have the lady squeese my head with her legs. So I can feel her shake before the BIG O happen.

DATY and BBBJ are both a wonderful mix of raw sex and loving intimacy. The best of both. I get every bit as much pleasure from giving as I do receiving. Exeriencing my lady's orgasm so up close and personal, feeling her throbbing and pulsing in my mouth as she cums......and at the same time gazing longingly and intimately into each others eyes......sharing the pleasure given and received........and the added bonus for me that my orgasms are always so much more intense during BBBJ........I could go on and on......

Its definitely a loving, giving, sharing, intimate act of love and affection, but also the most intense physical experience...

If my lover, provider or otherwise, isn't into the intimacy part as well as the pure raw sex part, when both giving and receiving, then it really lessens the experience.

FYI 69 is not my fav, although I do enjoy it, simply because I would rather focus on giving and receiving pleasure......and sharing such sweet moments....both at once can be a bit distracting and take away from the BBBj and/or the DATY

FYI 69 is not my fav, although I do enjoy it, simply because I would rather focus on giving and receiving pleasure......and sharing such sweet moments....both at once can be a bit distracting and take away from the BBBj and/or the DATY Originally Posted by jeff996

I agree, used to have the need to to dive into with 69 just to have something to destract me from letting go. Now I can control that I don't care for 69 mainly because I realy like to dive in and realy enjoy it myself. Just love for a woman to relax, lay back on the sofa slide down and let me play forever. Mix in a toy or two and "wetter is better"

if u enjoy it!!! i say let us do it....couse i love giveing bbbj..... Originally Posted by SexyKaylen

Kaylen, I sure do miss being in your pocket girl!

I had my first DATY in my life ever yeasterday and had a lot of thoughts on it.

1-years ago when I could have with a fwb, I did not. I was afraid of the organ. and up untill recently was still kind of afraid. But I wanted it. SO I got my big boy pants on and just like going off of the high dive I tried it. She was a privider and very kind and understanding and does this often with her clients.

2-Wow a lot of work. It less than 10 minutes I was getting tired. This why I eat the icecream cone reather than lick.

3-Am I doing this right? With no reference to compare it to, I was concerned?

4-Her pelvis began thrusting into my face, I took this as a clue it was going ok.

5-shoulders were tightly squeazed by the thighs and a little panting, followed by a compliment.

I am a pleaser too. I was glad to know I am not totally inadequite. Even though I paid for the experience I was glad to. I wish I could have had the BBBJ, but there was a concern because I am a very leaky boy. Maybe one day I can have the BBBJ and see what this is like. I have just recently only become sexual and comfortable with these things. You know there not that bad, kind of fun too! Who the hell knew it would be fun?

There are few things in this world I enjoy more than eating pussy way that lady wants it at that moment. An hour, two hours, doesn't matter. The connection is incredible when you really listen to her and follow her words and her body.

DATY is a near sacred ritual.
Not all providers get that provided.
BBBJ is no big deal insofar as my SO is a
pretty ardent hose hound...when she wants to.
Besides, my cock is so ravaged I'm pretty sure
a girl could bite it till it bled and I probably
wouldn't notice right away.

Oral is the communion in the House of Eros.
Generally if I can't eat it I can't fuck it.
Case in point.
Lets call her Safire. Beautiful lines. Sexy woman...
..as long as you're upwind. Keerist her cooch
smelled like a seafood restaurant's dumpster
in the middle of August. Lost my wood so bad
it was like I had three testicles.
Disappointing to say the least.
Of course I can get too carried away.
Lets call her Marilyn Rose.
Superb breed. Beautiful from the tips of her hair
down to her exquisite toes. Honeysuckle flavored
pussy- 1 of 4 I have found in my life thus far.
I spent the majority of our time with my face
in her ass. I'll fuck her eventually, but sugar cooches
are a rare find. It is like candy- not a metaphor either-
her pussy is sweet to the taste.
Alot of girls like to think they got pussies like hers.
WRONG, I wish more girls had one.
Sadly just not the case. My SO has one-
it was the deciding factor in marrying her.
If I was 20 ys younger Marilyn would either have
a ring on her finger, a restraining order in her hand
or probably both.

I get high from this type of woman.
I have discussed this with a few younger players.
They didn't believe such was true.
Now they are on the prowl looking for it.
1 cat is up to 174 with no luck yet.

I only have found this on caucasian women.
German-Irish-French: all of celtic descent.

Any guys, or gals for that matter, encounter
a sugar cooch? A race other than celt?

This generally applies not so much to the hobby, but to those of us with SO's (even though the relationship may have changed) and those who have had meaningful affairs/relationships. I have come to view BBBJ and DATY as acts of affection rather than just sex acts. I always enjoyed slow, sensual BBBJs and I would often express affection for women by performing DATY - because it gave ME satisfaction as well. However, I have spoken with some providers - who give great BBBJ - and they have never seen oral as anything more than physical satisfaction.

A couple of years ago I had an affair with a lady I knew and on one occasion - the first time we were very sexual - she pulled my pants down and started giving me a BBBJ that was not only great but I definitely felt that she was saying "I love you". It was SO loving that I would not even describe it accurately as a BBBJ - more like making love to me with her mouth. Naturally, I returned the favor.

My question is - Am I the only one who feels this way? When you are with someone you love and care about, do you see oral as more loving or more physical satisfaction?

Charlie Originally Posted by nycalcharlie2003

Oral is very intimate.

Two of my favorite things :-)

For me its personal physical satisfaction, receiving and giving, however I do put my feelings into, and hope the lady of the day is fully satisfied. That's what make me such a good "oralist". When I see a lady my desire in "STT", scent, touch and taste of a woman. It is not so much intercourse for me. I can penetrate for 30. 40 minutes without cumming. My most intense orgasm is from BJ's. I even had a orgasm once while eating out a very juicy and orgasmic lady.

I can honestly say, I completely enjoy the sex and BBBJ and get way more into it when there's DATY involved. it gets the motor running and the blood flowing (; Originally Posted by GabrielaSweetheart

Once u r back in Dallas I would have to come down there just a DATY and DATO session 😊😊😊