Communication......

So where did you say you had learned English?

. . .You should be able to get a goodly refund.

Originally Posted by Fast Gunn

I learnt by reading too many ECCIE Provider profiles!!

"Unread" still can mean they have read it. It's no different on Eccie when you look at your messages to see if they "Read" or "Unread" there messages. You can actually "Read" your messages with it still saying "Unread". Originally Posted by shorty

Okay confirmed with P411 help. If a message is read it shows as read and goes from bold to reg font. See below:

info: Thank you for your patience while waiting for a site operator to respond.
info: You are now chatting with 'Lori'
Lori: Hi DJ
Lori: if they read it you would be notified
DJ: with the circle things right?
Lori: yes, in bold means it has not been opened
DJ: okay. thank you.
Lori: Thank you for visiting. Please contact us at anytime.

Happy now?

I am not a fan of P411. I don't care if someone has lot's of okays, I realize clients spend alot of money to have a P411 account and it's supposed to make the screening process easier. I simply do not take for granted that I should see someone simply because other provider's have given him an okay. I go with my gut and my impression after I screen someone. I am my own person and I have the right to choose who I wish to see and who I do not. Personally, I don't want to see my reviews posted. If someone likes me, they'll see me again and if they don't then that's their choice. Trust me, we providers get rejected all the time. If we don't want to see you, what are we supposed to do? Reply "No Thanks"?

Some of it may have to do with being busy with regular clients and not wishing to meet someone new. Perhaps she saw the other provider okays and did not feel comfortable being the next "once over". Sometimes I see a ton of okays from multiple providers and think that I don't want to subject myself to a professional hobbyist. I have no idea what they are looking for but I know it's not gonna be me who will make him happy. I'd rather have a frank discussion/interview and decide for myself if we are compatible and if our expectations match up.

I like the Honesty CinderBella. I think some guys may prefer a "no thanks" over a no response though.

A question for providers, do providers read the about me or bio section on a clients profile or just look at the OKs? I don't think I've ever filled that section out.

The entire message thingamajig can be crazy at times. I try my best to respond to messages on P411 IMMEDIATELY. Too many times I open up a PM from 2 hours ago, respond, and get the ANNOYING "Oh, I was wanting to meet then at that time." and the "I was hoping to see you last year" ... and I'm thinking F#%K!!!!!!!!!!! Why didn't he just call if wanting to meet immediately??? Sometimes, its OKAY to not follow protocol according to the situation. But as a few suggested, if her number is listed, by all means, call it. Utilize all her contact methods to grab her attention. If she still doesn't respond, I suppose she is not interested in meeting - not necessarily that she is a "bad" provider, although not so good in etiquette...she could just as easily mention the incompatibility or even give a recommendation.

Move on to another provider who is just as interested in you as her. Trust me, your session will prove better with mutual respect/attraction/interest...unless you want to be merely seen as a last resort for her in the future when she is short of rent. It would be apparent her intentions would not be to knock your socks off even if she did see you , because she seems hardly interested.

P411 is a screening tool and nothing more. Its up to the ladies to use it as a tool. Its up to the fucktards to use it as a tool to locate and contact the ladies.

If the ladies do not want to see a particular fucktard, there is no reason to get upset by it. Some ladies do not take references or okays from certain ladies. That is their business and no one else's.

I agree with Eva Damita. Move on to someone who is willing to give you the consideration you want. Also, I'm not a man so this whole fascination with someone who won't answer doesn't make sense. Did you have a good experience with a gal who you can still reach? Patronize her. She deserves it if she made you cum. I don't get these guys who want to sample every girl and get themselves hung up on reviews. I know, I know you all want variety. We girls tend to want stable regulars. Oh well, happy hunting.