NCNS Madison Ville

Johnny4455's Avatar
i dnt want to start off on the wrong foot. i even contacted u after u left a short while after our scheduled meeting time and u said u didnt want to turn around. im not a ncns girl. i did not have another appointment or intentionally blow anyone off. if u txt me and theres no response please call me. i use google voice so i get all my txts which is why i said "playing games" bad choice of words i know but the fact that i didnt get ur txts and u didnt want to come up had me thinking there wre games played. srry for the misunderstanding. yall have a great day. Originally Posted by Madison Ville

You did not contact me after I left the parking lot honey. I texted u 2 hours later "are u ok?". U responded yes and asked me to come back. I declined. And you then told me I was playing games. You also claimed earlier in the thread that you called me after our missed appointment. You never called me once, and not a call or a text from you as I sat for 30 minutes waiting for u.

The "i didn't get the texts from the parking lot because I use Google voice" is weak because we texted a bunch the day before no problems, and multiple confirming texts back and forth within 30 minutes before the appt, then texting 2 hours later works fine.

You are new. You will have plenty of opportunities to show others that you are dependable. Your actions in the future are more important than any words here.
OK Im back on Madison you can go away now...again!

Get em Johnny!
Guess I'm showing my age. You got a damn phone in your hand. What is the problem actually talking?
Johnny4455's Avatar
There is no "problem" with speaking over the phone. I don't think that is the issue here. I've been doing this awhile, and I have my reasons for how I communicate. Worked pretty good for me so far. I try to be cautious and when you are dealing with a newbie (and this shows you why sometimes it's better to avoid newbies) the text messaging work s for me better than a call. So she and I texted the day before probably over a dozen t3xts. Then morning of appt multiple back and forth including she gives me address. When she doesn't respond to 4 texts in the lot, calling her on the phone doesn't feel good to me.

We all handle things differently. But that's why I didn't call her on my "damn" phone. Ncns doesn't happen often to me. No more newbies for me.
SpicyOnion's Avatar
In 95% of NCNS cases you will get the same fu*king answer, "oh forgot to charge my phone/accidentally went on to silent mode, etc", but it works perfectly fine before we start from home.
Johnny for what it's worth I saw Madison and had a great time. Maybe this is a bit of misunderstanding or lack of communication. I spoke with her about the issue and she's willing to make up for it with you. Drop her a line bro. She's pretty new into this and trying to get the hang of things.