I like to be able to scope out the place that I am going to and deciding if I actually want to do the appointment or call in a cancellation. If something seems amiss then I can opt out.
If you have someone show up at your incall, you don't get to do that. Also, at an outcall, if you feel uncomfortable, you can leave. At an incall, you can't MAKE them leave without calling the front desk and risking exposure.
I have had a few guys rip me off at the incall location because they gave me my outcall rate. As I see limited clientele, I usually will get a room for one particular person. I don't have a high turnover, so it makes more sense for me financially to just do outcall and I consider it safer IMHO.
Anyone can be the victim of a sting, I've mainly heard of LE problems when they acquire a hotel room and do incalls and bust the men the men that show up. I have rarely heard of providers getting busted at an outcall location unless it's a hotel room. Not to say that it doesn't happen.
As long as you screen, screen, screen then you should be fine. Do your research first before committing.
Originally Posted by Allie_Kat
One thing that a lady like yourself could do in order to be able to do some eye check screening for an Incall (as you stated above that you like to do for an Outcall) is to:
1) only give him the general location and time when the date is set,
2) have him call when he is on his way (so as not to pay for a room unnecessarily), [if his travel is too short to give you enough time to get a room and prepare, have him drive around for awhile and buy some Boulevard Wheat!]
3) give him the address when he is close and you know that he is going to show up, and
4) have him call you when he arrives and is getting out of his car, at which point you can check out him and his car and decide whether you want to give him your room number. That is your last minute eye-screening. If you decide - following your judgment - not to see him, then politely inform him that you have to cancel the date. You won't mind paying out of your pocket for a room to avoid a date that you discover should be avoided.
This sounds like a lot of work, but I have come to observe how careful you are (P411 +3 required, covering your face in your pics, CBJ instead of BBBJ). And your attention to safety will keep you from saying against your judgment, "Well, it doesn't look good. But he is already at the parking lot. So I can't tell him 'no' now." I am confident that you will not fail in this way.
FYI: your pic with your feet in the air wearing the tall black boots is very hot. Put that together, please, with the short black skirt.