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Amazing insight from arguably the most desired provider on ECCIE. Are you annoyed by assholes hitting on you constantly or from what may seem to be guys kissing your ass to try to butter you up? Originally Posted by clitlicker7

damn clitlicker, we just stumbled on to the LITMUS test for Hookers in public ..

you have NO idea the beautiful woman at the mall is a hooker

in passing, you be polite and say hello

she kicks you in the nuts and cusses you.

HOOKER!

most men wont approach a real stunner for fear of rejection. Originally Posted by CJ7

I have no fear of rejection...I KNOW for certain I'll be rejected. I pretend (it's really hard to pretend where a real stunner is concerned) to ignore and move on. This lady is for someone else other than me.

If I'm out in public, generally I'm trying to get stuff done - I don't want to be bothered. Has nothing to do with a "too good for you" attitude. I just don't have a lot of patience and my tolerance level is low.
If I'm at the bar/casino... well I'm a little more tolerant. Even more so when I've had a few drinks. Originally Posted by Shayla

Sorry if my question came across as saying you were conceited, it didn't mean to imply that. I was just intrigued because I read post after post of hobbyist brown nosing you and I can only imagine its worse when you're out in public. I've seen your showcase pics and you hit the genetic lottery. You're beautiful. I don't think there's anything wrong with wanting to be left alone. I just found it interesting because so many of the guys here lust for you in a major way.

In my experience beautiful women get hit on constantly and most women are polite but really do not want to be bothered. I understand a gorgeous woman has her guard up at all times because of this. She is always on the defense from scumbags, creeps, etc. etc. I have been with gorgeous women in public and creepy men approach them even when they are with another man. It creates problems for the lady, she is embarassed or prefers to be with me her original date. I took a gorgeous woman on a trip once and she even went so far as to ensure where she was sitting so no creep would plop down next to her, lol.

It is flattering, from what I am told, to be complimented like the OP described but that is all she wants at that moment in time. There is a way to approach beautiful women witrh finese, charisma, and style. In my experience a lot of beautiful women are not approached because most men think the woman is out of his league, I do not have that dilemma, no lady is too good for me, and I do not mean that in a conceited way. WE are all human and honestly I am a great catch, I am wealthy, business owner, property, in shape, faithful, honest, charming, funny, and if we click her looks become pretty low on the priority scale to me and to her, just my experience. Timing is very important as well, talk with confidence, not conceit, be humble, honest and most importantly go slow, let her have time to break down those walls she puts up to guard herself from creeps. Just my .02 but than again what do I know?

I here you CJ. It was the idiot factor I was concerned about. I don't have a fear of approaching women, I have a new fuck buddy and an SO on the side. It was just that all three of us were honestly stunned by how beautiful this woman was. Just think of a brunette with hazel eyes, hour glass figure, ample breast and rear, wearing a tight but classy business suit in four inch heels. We were at her mercy and I think she knew it. Originally Posted by clitlicker7

Gents - Do you think she dressed this way by accident? Do you think she likes dieting and spending HOURS spinning on her eliptical, or do you think she might have a purpose. I promise, she was glad you guys stopped talking and looked. Did any of you notice if she was wearing a wedding band. If she wasn't, its an open invitation to go say hello. Where you go from there and how long it takes before she bitch slaps you ass is up to you.

Have fun out there!

Sorry if my question came across as saying you were conceited, it didn't mean to imply that. I was just intrigued because I read post after post of hobbyist brown nosing you and I can only imagine its worse when you're out in public. I've seen your showcase pics and you hit the genetic lottery. You're beautiful. I don't think there's anything wrong with wanting to be left alone. I just found it interesting because so many of the guys here lust for you in a major way. Originally Posted by clitlicker7

No, no I didn't take it that way I just wanted to clarify. I find flattery to be more humbling than anything. Thank you for the compliments.

If I'm out in public, generally I'm trying to get stuff done - I don't want to be bothered. Has nothing to do with a "too good for you" attitude. I just don't have a lot of patience and my tolerance level is low.
If I'm at the bar/casino... well I'm a little more tolerant. Even more so when I've had a few drinks. Originally Posted by Shayla

Some guys are just rude! When I get a BBBJ, I keep my mouth shut. Its just not right to bother a lady when she is obviously busy! LOL

Well stated Outdoorsman, I will comment on beauty in a respectful manner if I feel it is appropriate timing. No cheap lines or cat calls and I usually send drinks to ladies in bars but do not hard sell the deal and many times the subtle approach works.

SL - Now that there is funny!

As long as you dont push it too far there is nothing wrong with commenting on a womens' beauty...Ive done this many times ..sometimes its met with a nice response and others they just blow you off and look at you like your an idiot .
I have wound up with lots of friendly conversation which as led to friendships with some of the ladies but it is always the way you approach it...never try to hit on them ..they just look at you like your a pig...lol

If I'm out in public, generally I'm trying to get stuff done - I don't want to be bothered. Has nothing to do with a "too good for you" attitude. I just don't have a lot of patience and my tolerance level is low. Originally Posted by Shayla

This is how I am too. If I'm out doing things, I'm out doing things. I have a schedule to follow, and that's all I want to do.

I actually try to downplay my appearance and figure when in public to avoid unwanted attention. My hair is always pulled back and I usually wear either something "flowy" or my PTs to go out in. I also make it a point to get my things done when places are empty.

When I'm dressed up to go out, stare all you want. But if you're obvious about it you're doing it wrong.

That's what I'm talking about Missy, have some class! I look a LOT but you won't know unless I really want you to and I will not look like a coyote licking his chops.

I tend to hide my sexy demeanor behind this biz. So, I don't think I would mind the stares but, I would not like to be approached by anything less than a gentlemen.

I tend to hide my sexy demeanor behind this biz. So, I don't think I would mind the stares but, I would not like to be approached by anything less than a gentlemen. Originally Posted by Macie Madrid

Impossible to hide your sexy demeanor behind anything ... HOT would escape through a steel door

speaking strictly as a Gentleman of course.

I think its cute lol. I find it flattering myself, and if the guy was hott and tongue tied by me I would be all over that!

I think you can approach and be complimentary as long as your a gentleman. Worst case scenario she isn't interested.