The fact that you want to make your newfound relationship work, and want to put this thing behind you is a positive and necessary step. Only time will tell.
If it works, Great! If it doesn't you can always pick up where you left off. The beauty of this "world" (if there be one) is there's no limit to the number of times you can retire or unretire. Whichever route makes you happy is the path to follow. Good luck to you.
I am only hopeful your retirement lasts longer than those of Demon or Classysex - those are records which will never be broken.
Shame I am not a betting man. I'd enjoy a steak dinner at dearhunter's expense - so long as he's not dining with me.