I'd like to know who both providers are ...+1
Provider one because she sounds like a bitch.
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Provider two because no way in hell should she have ever went back and disclosed to you what provider one said in her reference.
Both of these ladies sound like poor choices. Originally Posted by Brooke Wilde
Provider #2 should not have disclosed what provider #1 said. The whole point of references is to be as honest as possible. I've told other girls that a gentleman is difficult to pop, so that they know what they're getting into when they see him. It's not a complaint, just honesty.