No references, requests for unheard of services like it is the NORM

I have had great CBJs, Originally Posted by JRLawrence

Didn't you start a thread recently about oxymorons...?
Did you forget to add this one...??

I have had great CBJs, Originally Posted by JRLawrence

Didn't you recently start a thread about oxymorons..?
Looks like you forgot one..

I have had great CBJs, Originally Posted by JRLawrence

Didn't you recently start a thread about oxymorons..?
Looks like you forgot one..

Why do you think it is important to me what you think? I intentionally make some posts vague for my own reasons! Last time I checked, I wasn't required to divulge those reasons to you! If you can't understand or deal with that, move on!

This post ain't vague, is it? Originally Posted by dumars

I was commenting on your post:

"Me thinks the circumstances might be sprinkled with fecal matter! Just think’n with my fingers!"

I don't care what you think, or don't think. You don't need any reasons for anything you say, or the lady who started this thread.

It is important for her to understand that she is playing games with everyone, and most of the guys know it.

If there is something she doesn't want during a visit, just say so. Now let's move on to another lady if that is not OK with a guy.

It is not OK to criticize a guy for asking. He was just asking, don't get angry about it. It is never OK for a lady to change her mind after the event is over, and then blame him: Remember the woman who willfully engaged in sex with a guy, and then cried rape because he didn't call her back. Not OK

Being vague is, in reality, like a politician who intentionally doesn't want to reveal what he is talking about. Old time farmers would call this type of behavior "chickenshit". But in personal relations, and in business, say what you mean and mean what you say.

This life, which had been the tomb of his virtue and of his honour, is but a walking shadow; a poor player, that struts and frets his hour upon the stage, and then is heard no more: it is a tale told by an idiot, full of sound and fury, signifying nothing.
William Shakespeare

I think she meant like bare full service it seems a lot of Verified Hobbyists think this is okay ?? Maybe just a Texas thang! I don’t know ... everyone had some great insight. I am taking heed “feed me cum” I may use that ... Originally Posted by Sonara

Yes, please!

Originally Posted by Cherokeechief

Not having references hasn't stopped me from seeing a lot of ladies, yourself included.

I agree that asking her questions before agreeing to meet. I have heard some wild requests! Some i say no, i am not into that. I will never judge anyone for their kinks. If someone has a kink, its because they like it. They dont choose to like something. Its like if vanilla ice cream is your favorite flavor, i dont ask why do you like that? Because you do!
Some suggestions i am like, never done that before but sounds fun. I ask them to be specific. Its scary to ask but easier to type than say it out loud!

Do you have a menu that's posted somewhere? Are you on p411? Do you have a no list?

I rarely ever get asked for things I don't provide because I have a no list so people know not to ask me whatever is on that list. the only thing that is assumed to be a no on most people's list is bare FS. Other than that you really do have to clarify.

A lot of girls don't do bbbj,kiss, fiv. But that's a part of all of my experiences which is why you have to clarify. If you have a list or reviews they won't have to ask for the most part. And I've only gotten asked to do bare one time of course I said no but he didn't even ask during the screening process he tried to do it in person . Other than that I've literally never had anyone ask that even though I don't even put that on my no list because no one has ever asked me except that one guy. Because the guys I see would never do it or at least tell me about it.

If guys don't know what you're getting they will ask

Now as far as references I leave my screening policy on every single ad that I have. so if someone contacts me without screening I tell them to please continue with the screening policy so we can proceed to the next step and if they don't then that's the end of that. And because my screening process is so highly visible sometimes I just ignore people if they don't do the process because there's no way you could look at my ad and not see it so people who don't comply aren't trying to screen.

Now I don't know how long you been doing this but when I first started guys tried to pull the wool over my eyes with screening here in KC. But as soon as I got reviews professional photography and a website all that stopped. Now your experience may be different but I just wanted to say what happened to me.

In my opinion Kansas City is one of the best place to hobby (for ladies) so if someone doesn't screen or want something you're uncomfortable with you will still have plenty of people knocking at your door don't even worry about it

Originally Posted by JRLawrence

JR it was a couple years ago. She was a little Blonde who is retired and married, also moved back to Wichita. Hope She's happy !