"Classifying" men who see TS providers

you left out SLUT in the poll ... lol

you left out SLUT in the poll ... lol Originally Posted by CJ7

I only had 4 options, LOL!

I thought they were just greedy..

Men who see TS providers in my opinion should not be judged at all, we all have a preference as to who we want to see and for what sextivities we want to take place. Just because some people are less inhibited and prefer sextivities other than the so called norm does not mean they are gay. While some may prefer a lady with a strap on vs. a TS with the real thing between their legs that should make no difference and should not be judged as being gay but rather a guy with an uninhibited desire for the kinkier side. A lot of guys love to see two women go after it, yet they call them lesbians rather than gays. Gay for some reason takes on dirty word meaning. We all need to come together on why it's ok for two women to get together but not for two men, weather one happens to look female or not is irrelevant. Lets not judge others, let’s live and let live and make the most of what time we have left.

There definitely is quite a few guys who have seen transsexuals but rarely post/say anything about it because people pass judgement so quickly.
I don't get why... Some of these transsexual's I have seen are beyond hot and better looking than some "hot" women.
To answer the question... These transsexual LOOK like women and strive to have feminine features.
If men who saw transsexuals were more "gay" or "bisexual" I don't think they would have a problem with a male escort who looked like a man.

What if they're just bi-curious? Who cares...who am I to judge?

There definitely is quite a few guys who have seen transsexuals but rarely post/say anything about it because people pass judgement so quickly.
I don't get why... Some of these transsexual's I have seen are beyond hot and better looking than some "hot" women.
To answer the question... These transsexual LOOK like women and strive to have feminine features.
If men who saw transsexuals were more "gay" or "bisexual" I don't think they would have a problem with a male escort who looked like a man. Originally Posted by Shayla

Hopefully that judgment will change, but not untill people stand up for what they believe in and start posting without caring about what other people think.

A pre-op Tranny is a male. Therefore, a hobbiest who sees one is involved in a gay encounter. These are the facts, not judgements.

I do NOT care one way or the other, it is their business.

In my opinion...
If you are a MAN and are getting rammed in the asshole by a man with a dick up your ass, you are GAY.
...you just happen to like women too.
"Straight" men want women...not men with dicks and boobies.

Having said that...
I have known both Pre and post op transgendered people.
and love and respect them.
I even give make-overs to crossdressers and like to play dress up...
but that is not the question you are asking.

If you want a dick up your ass ...you are gay...deal with it...and GAY IS OKAY!

liking TS does not make you gay nor does anal pay there is a big difference between that and being sexually attracted to the male sex IMO Originally Posted by SkylarCruzWantsYou

I almost didn't made a comment to this thread, which I really like by the way ... because everyone has a right to their opinion.

I happen to really agree with what Skylar wrote. A lot of men that I've know who are full blown heteros are curious about what something might feel like or how it would be.

This is just being curious and generally, people with higher IQ's ARE curious especially if sexuality is an important aspect of their life.

The bottom has so many nerve endings that it's not surprising to me that men would like to have their bottom played with and manipulated in different ways.

Although it's a controversial stance, I believe that a man can want to experience (or at least fantasize about) sex with another penis and still be straight.

When I was new to this, I didn't wish to see men who experimented in this fashion. And I sure as heck didn't wish to be with a man who had experienced sex with a TS. That was a very long time ago. Now? I encourage it.

And although I like this topic, I don't like putting people into categories. Life isn't that simple. And neither is sexuality.

What Skylar was saying, I think, parrots what I feel about it. Anal play doesn't make a man bi or gay. Wanting penetration doesn't, either.

But it probably WOULD make a difference if he wanted to see the top of the male included in that equation and men in general turned him on.

TS encounters are different to me.

And that makes all of the difference in the world.

My opinion, only.

Elisabeth

QUOTE:Although it's a controversial stance, I believe that a man can want to experience (or at least fantasize about) sex with another penis and still be straight.

A man is NOT just a penis.
A man is a total human being...capable of making choices.
He can be with a woman or another man.
A MAN can put on a dress. That doesn't make him a woman.

If they are "screwed"(in the bottom by a woman,) they are STRAIGHT.
If they are "screwed" (in the bottom by a man ,)
with a penis they are GAY.

JUST MY OWN OPINION.

QUOTE:Although it's a controversial stance, I believe that a man can want to experience (or at least fantasize about) sex with another penis and still be straight.

A man is NOT just a penis.
A man is a total human being...capable of making choices.
He can be with a woman or another man.
A MAN can put on a dress. That doesn't make him a woman.

If they are "screwed"(in the bottom by a woman,) they are STRAIGHT.
If they are "screwed" (in the bottom by a man ,)
with a penis they are GAY.

JUST MY OWN OPINION. Originally Posted by *GoddessDallas*

Do you think that a woman is GAY if she likes to eat pussy occasionally? People seem to have strong feelings that if a man has sex with a transexual occasionally, he's absolutely GAY more so than if a woman occasionally likes to walk on the wild side.

It reminds me of the old joke: No one calls you a pianist if you play the piano once, but if you suck one cock.......

I really prefer the playing the piano analogy that was just written. And it works for me very nicely. Beautiful example!!!

exactly same goes with lesbians if you reversed it, a girl can be attracted to a another woman who dresses masculine and favors a strap-on can be gay indubitably no one doubts her homosexuality just because she likes to get penetrated every now and then

exactly same goes with lesbians if you reversed it, a girl can be attracted to a another woman who dresses masculine and favors a strap-on can be gay indubitably no one doubts her homosexuality just because she likes to get penetrated every now and then Originally Posted by SkylarCruzWantsYou

Even in that instance, if she still prefers men, she's bisexual not homosexual.