Hobbying While Visiting and Respect

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And the handle of this lady was???? Originally Posted by Bubba3452

Jeezus!

"...Next time you make a trip this way babe, really do your home work.. The search button can be your best friend...Also try looking for the ladies that have been around a while and have built up a very good reputation for herself along with a following"

I am not a newbie. I did my research, and read the boards often enough to have a very good feel for providers' reputations for TCB, and in this particular case, a propensity for tardiness. I offered initially a later window for our visit and SHE was the one who fixed the appointment for 10am. She is a long time provider with many reviews (thus me knowing she can be late). She explained she was not a morning person as was obvious when we first spoke on my early arrival.. As I said, I did build in time to allow for that. Just not as much time as was demanded.

"You travel from the Panhandle to DFW and don't have a backup plan? Not very well planned from the start . . . "

No, no backup plan. Shame on me for expecting the consideration of meeting an obligation made to someone from almost 400 miles away after a week's worth of contact. This trip was well planned. I had been prescreened by several ladies and when I arrived in the area I made my final decisions and confirmed appointments and times. Planning was not an issue on my part here. My leisure time for this trip was filled with other provider appointments, none of whom had difficulty fulfilling their promises...TIMELY.

"I have no qualms with the OP wanting to vent a little frustration, that's his prerogative, but isn't this an (E. C. C.) Information Exchange board? "


Fair enough. I reiterate from my OP:

I was gentlemanly and not really PO'ed, but my point is:

If I have taken the time to ask to be pre-screened from far away, contact for an appointment and confirm it, I will BE there. As a traveler, time is of the essence. Please be respectful of the constraints on time we have as visitors not locals.

I will not name this provider as I see no good coming from that. I realize that most of our ladies are somewhat time challenged, but consider what I have asked, Originally Posted by budrn

Budrn.....Good post...and OMG, I SO understand what you are dealing with and IMHO you are right on target.

Here is my reccomendation, for what it is worth...

WHATEVER YOU DO....DO NOT GIVE THE NAME OF ANY PROVIDER YOU ARE SPEAKING ABOUT OR THE WKs (you can see many of the same ones if you look at my posts and many others where a NCNS or other true post where the Hobbyist would come out looking correct) WILL COME OUT IN MASS!!!

Just my HO.........(Lol, a little play on words there....I so crack me up!!!) Hahaha

I will PM you and get names of the providers and I reccomend that anyone making such a post follow that idea...use PMs or risk being WKed to the Max.....

Have a great day and thanks for the post.

R

I'm with Bubba. Without a name the thread is worthless. If you just want to rant and blow off steam, well fine. Wish you would have indicated that in the title, however, so that those of us who don't like to read rants could have passed it by. Originally Posted by Waldo P. Emerson-Jones

WK MASS TO FOLLOW!!

"Is it your only point that hobbyists who pass through this area once in a blue moon deserve special privileges that don't apply to locals? I seriously doubt very many providers have that clause in their business model."

LOL-Well yeah, kind of. My window of opportunity for experiencing the vast selection and visitation of high quality beautiful providers is limited to infrequent visits while you and other locals should be happier than a pig in shit. You are ass deep in pu**y! LOL

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I am not a newbie. I did my research, and read the boards often enough to have a very good feel for providers' reputations for TCB, and in this particular case, a propensity for tardiness. I offered initially a later window for our visit and SHE was the one who fixed the appointment for 10am. She is a long time provider with many reviews (thus me knowing she can be late). She explained she was not a morning person as was obvious when we first spoke on my early arrival.. As I said, I did build in time to allow for that. Just not as much time as was demanded.

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No, no backup plan. Shame on me for expecting the consideration of meeting an obligation made to someone from almost 400 miles away after a week's worth of contact. This trip was well planned. I had been prescreened by several ladies and when I arrived in the area I made my final decisions and confirmed appointments and times. Planning was not an issue on my part here. My leisure time for this trip was filled with other provider appointments, none of whom had difficulty fulfilling their promises...TIMELY.

Fair enough. I reiterate from my OP:

I was gentlemanly and not really PO'ed, but my point is:

If I have taken the time to ask to be pre-screened from far away, contact for an appointment and confirm it, I will BE there. As a traveler, time is of the essence. Please be respectful of the constraints on time we have as visitors not locals. ... Originally Posted by budrn

again, i am sorry that it didnt work out w/ you and the provider.
and i am glad that it DID work out w/ the other women you scheduled with.

but ... restating my point ...

if you knew there was a greater than 0 probability [maybe even much higher than that]..
and you planned your visit knowing her reputation,
then i dont think you should be at all surprised by the fact that the appt didnt make, for whatever reason. upset, maybe, frustated, maybe. surprised, NO.

and i dont think that your diligent planing for being at an appt should be the sole or main reason for her accepting you into her place for the appt. SHE MAKES THE DECISIONS, not you.

this applies to newbies, juniors, vets.
this applies to guys down the street from her or guys 500 miles away.
this applies to morning, noon, afternoon, evening, late nite appts.
this applies to ALL appointments in this subculture.


now, let's examine both possible results.
for those women who you got to visit, would you give them their props for being on time, welcoming you into their place, providing a deliteful time?
maybe yes, maybe no. possibly in a review or a co-ed or ML post.
that'd be acknowledging a positive experience.

that kind of info can be very useful when deciding whether or not to visit her.


as the woman in question didnt follow through w/ the appt, has she gotten back to you and explained antything or suggested any recourse? if not, then why not acknowledge that less than positive experience so that other guys in this area can know what might transpire should we attempt to visit with her?

yes, things happens. but with some women it happens more than with others. that kind of info can be very useful when deciding whether or not to visit her.


and perhaps us responders are jumping the gun where all you wanted to do was describe what happened. however, putting that last bit about being there and consideration about travelers just seemed presumptious to me.

i'm out...

What if this same lady had given the runaround to half a dozen guys in the last few months, and no one felt the need to exchange that information with the community (after all they were only out just a little time and gas)? The search button won't help a guy if other hobbyists don't provide names when they report their negative experiences, or just don't report anything. And how do we know he didn't use the search button, and the provider had an impeccable record? I have no qualms with the OP wanting to vent a little frustration, that's his prerogative, but isn't this an (E. C. C.) Information Exchange board? Originally Posted by trynagetlaid

Calm down guys and drink some coffee..... I was'nt trying to be mean here... but as Trynagetlaid said if you can't find any history in the search engine and you guys won't post the providers name, what happens to the next guy that contacts her? Exactly.. We will be reading another thread just like this one.... You should post here name and save your hobby brothers time and money...

Jeezus!

"...Next time you make a trip this way babe, really do your home work.. The search button can be your best friend...Also try looking for the ladies that have been around a while and have built up a very good reputation for herself along with a following"

I am not a newbie. I did my research, and read the boards often enough to have a very good feel for providers' reputations for TCB, and in this particular case, a propensity for tardiness. I offered initially a later window for our visit and SHE was the one who fixed the appointment for 10am. She is a long time provider with many reviews (thus me knowing she can be late). She explained she was not a morning person as was obvious when we first spoke on my early arrival.. As I said, I did build in time to allow for that. Just not as much time as was demanded.

"You travel from the Panhandle to DFW and don't have a backup plan? Not very well planned from the start . . . "

No, no backup plan. Shame on me for expecting the consideration of meeting an obligation made to someone from almost 400 miles away after a week's worth of contact. This trip was well planned. I had been prescreened by several ladies and when I arrived in the area I made my final decisions and confirmed appointments and times. Planning was not an issue on my part here. My leisure time for this trip was filled with other provider appointments, none of whom had difficulty fulfilling their promises...TIMELY.

"I have no qualms with the OP wanting to vent a little frustration, that's his prerogative, but isn't this an (E. C. C.) Information Exchange board? "


Fair enough. I reiterate from my OP:

I was gentlemanly and not really PO'ed, but my point is:

If I have taken the time to ask to be pre-screened from far away, contact for an appointment and confirm it, I will BE there. As a traveler, time is of the essence. Please be respectful of the constraints on time we have as visitors not locals.

I will not name this provider as I see no good coming from that. I realize that most of our ladies are somewhat time challenged, but consider what I have asked, Originally Posted by budrn

Again I am really sorry you had to experience this on your trip to the Big D...

again, i am sorry that it didnt work out w/ you and the provider.
and i am glad that it DID work out w/ the other women you scheduled with.

but ... restating my point ...

if you knew there was a greater than 0 probability [maybe even much higher than that]..
and you planned your visit knowing her reputation,
then i dont think you should be at all surprised by the fact that the appt didnt make, for whatever reason. upset, maybe, frustated, maybe. surprised, NO.

and i dont think that your diligent planing for being at an appt should be the sole or main reason for her accepting you into her place for the appt. SHE MAKES THE DECISIONS, not you.

this applies to newbies, juniors, vets.
this applies to guys down the street from her or guys 500 miles away.
this applies to morning, noon, afternoon, evening, late nite appts.
this applies to ALL appointments in this subculture.


now, let's examine both possible results.
for those women who you got to visit, would you give them their props for being on time, welcoming you into their place, providing a deliteful time?
maybe yes, maybe no. possibly in a review or a co-ed or ML post.
that'd be acknowledging a positive experience.

that kind of info can be very useful when deciding whether or not to visit her.


as the woman in question didnt follow through w/ the appt, has she gotten back to you and explained antything or suggested any recourse? if not, then why not acknowledge that less than positive experience so that other guys in this area can know what might transpire should we attempt to visit with her?

yes, things happens. but with some women it happens more than with others. that kind of info can be very useful when deciding whether or not to visit her.


and perhaps us responders are jumping the gun where all you wanted to do was describe what happened. however, putting that last bit about being there and consideration about travelers just seemed presumptious to me.

i'm out... "

This post is so all over the map with misinterpretations if not downright misquotes of my OP, assumptions, and questions already answered in the OP and/or subsequent posts by me, I don't know where to start. So I won't.

pmd

I'm out.....

Thank God! LOL

To Fawn: Thank you for your grace as usual.

ps: I stand by my decision to not name this lady. Obviously from the responses lateness is rampant, everyone already knows that and shouldn't be surprised or care. Providers need little help harming their reps and businesses and I will not contribute. Selfish I know, sorry.