Looking for sub providers into pain

... I gain a great sense of pleasure by way of feeling consensual pain and I derive power from engaging in those experiences with someone I trust. Where did the OP mentioned only liking pain. What I do know is when I'm all the way into a vigorous D/s romp with my partner, and my ass is spanked or my breast are tormented or my nipples are bitten and pinched in just the right way, technicalities and percentages are the last thing on my mind. Originally Posted by Lena Duvall

i was just asking if there were providers who only wanted pain. i was not suggesting that's what needingmilking was after.

also, sorry, should have stated "some" masochists or psychologically unstable people might only want that. if someone only wants pain, seems to me, there's something going on in their mind that's different than most people. and some people might take advantage of that to too far of an extreme.

+1 babe... Originally Posted by needingmilking

i agree, w/ consensual being a very, if not the most, important word in such an interaction/relationship.

Consent is imperative for ANY human relationship, once people understand the term.
Lack of consent is criminal and unethical at every level.

I am MUCH more of a psychological sub. Like, intensely. Degradation, humiliation, name-calling, objectification... it's a lot of fun and like a release to me. It's not something I do constantly, but sporadically with trusted Doms, sure. It does not bother me on a personal level or have a troubling emotional impact. Sometimes some pain can be involved in that, but I have my limits with physical pain. Psychological dominance and some roughness physically is a lot more stimulating to me as it requires more. Not many people can truly operate in this arena without it seriously impacting their self-worth, self-efficacy & esteem. I also like to test my limits. This is why, though, I can't be a Domme to very many people. I tend to want to expect from others what I expect from myself, ha! I love exploring the realms of submission!

Psy deg is extremelly hard, you cannot see the redness in someone's mind!
You need to really TRUST and know the person for it to work...

I enjoy giving a good pussy spanking, alernating with daty and toy play. When done right it can bevery intense for her and thus very fun for me. And who doesnt like looking t a glowing red bum while doing a bit of doggy pounding. Oh what a dream...

I'm a mild masochist. While I only like select forms of humiliation, degradation is one of my top kinks. Needs to be done with the right person but when it is, it is very intense and satisfying.

I've only met one provider that really get's off on pain.
She doesn't get warmed up until the booty & kitty are good and red.
Also likes extreme nipple pain and ff.
Once she gets goin she just wants more and more.
A really fun experience with her.

^^^ Sounds like quite a blast!

Ms Duval next time your in Htown we should explore your pain and submissive thresholds.
I know you would enjoy it!