Skulling isn't for any given provider. My UTR who takes a solid skulling (actually, saw her just tonight, in fact) is a rarity. It is not typically on the menu nor do I expect any given hooker to do it.
For those clued out, skulling refers to skull-fucking, ie, deep, hard throat-fucking that typically ends in the man coming balls-deep down the girl's throat. In my case with my UTR I really dig breeding her and she really digs me breeding her so I bang her head hard until she's puked a few times (we put a trash can between us; she kneels), which gets her really turned on, then I put her on the bed and fuck her senseless until I load in her. She's a really nice, sweet lady. Met her by posting an ad on CL looking for a "casual" who wanted her stomach emptied (that was my code-phrase; figured the right kind of girl'd understand, and they did). Got 3 replies, one was her. We're a great team. We use each other ruthlessly - I give her money, her kink, and the kind of solid fucking she adores, and I get my itch scratched. On top of it, I love fucking her. It's a personal thing. I think she's kind, sweet, etc., and I know with me, she'll be safe. I know her limits and what she needs and what she can take. I've at times beeen short and she's taken as little as 40 simply bc she needed me to fuck her the way she needs it. I started with her at 80 and recently started paying her 100, at least when I can, to show my appreciation.
Some might say I am making this shit up. Not at all, God's honest truth. I have my theories as to why so many amateurs/casuals are appearing on the scene these days and at such low rates but that's for a different thread.
I used to bang this one older lady for 40. Nothing unusual, no kinks, just really good sex. I stopped seeing her about 2 months back because I had 3 regulars and it was getting expensive and I had even better sex with the other three, one being my skulling friend. However she texted me recently and said she really wanted to see me, missed me, etc. I told her OK but $$ is a concern so I could see her for 20. She said yes, no problem. So I am going to be fucking her again before the week-end is out. Is she a drug fiend? Not that I know of. She is an attractive older lady (early-mid 50s) with beautiful silver hair, a few tats, firm body, a hella nice rack, and is nice enough if not a bit jaded. Well aren't we all these days?
What motivates her to be so cheap and easy for me? Probably it's personal. A lot of ppl are lonely these days and when they meet someone they have great sex with and get along fine with, they are slow to walk away. In no small way I am seeing her to be kind to her. And while I don't miss her I appreciate that she misses me; being missed is a compliment and nothing to take for granted. Paying her is in a way me simply being considerate. I am pretty sure I don't have to, but I will anyway.
Miss Eva, I think the overall theme here is that with women I pay to have sex with, I also have real, actual, man-woman human fucking relationships with them.
I have met and fucked a large number of hookers in my 20 years of banging whores and when I was younger (I am in my late 40s now though Goddamn, I sure don't feel like it and most ppl take me for 35 or so) I banged hookers the way most guys do. "Hi, nice to meet you, let's fuck, oink oink squirt, here's the dough, later." Yeah you can pay $300/hr for that, or $1,000, or $10, and attitudes vary not by price but by individual woman.
Where I live, a certain kind of hooker with serious problems in life dealing with her needs to escape reality is unfortunately readily available. These girls have driven down the price of hooker services substantially. 200/hr used to be standard. Now, 100-120 is more typical for an escort (ie, not a streetwalker or one of these kinds of girls) and to get blown by one of these kinds of girls is as little as $10 ($5 for some) if you don't mind getting head in your car. But as morally questionable a character as I am, I won't allow myself to ruthlessly exploit someone in that condition for a $5 blowjob. Just can't do it.
Besides, fucking a girl and walking away isn't as easy to do as it used to be, esp. when I am banging some girl who I am old enough to be the father of, not that I look like it. I genuinely care about my 3 regulars and am very happy with them. I am not inclined to go looking to bang other girls except only occasionally, and even then, that is an event. I see all 3 of them weekly if not more often. I text them regularly. We talk abt our problems to each other. Yes, we use The L Word, too. We know how to make each other feel really good and appreciated in and out of bed. Do I give a shit if each one of them is an Academy Award-winning actress "just using this guy as a source of money and sex"? Not a whit. Could not care less if each one of them is playing me like a guitar. This is because I have had rel'ps with "normal" women in the past where indeed, turns out the bitch was about as sincere as a mafia boss professing contrition at his sentencing. Point is, ANYONE can misrepreent him or herself to anyone else for any reason. So I work with what I know. And I know this: these girls have all lowered prices for me at times I had trouble affording them. I never try to play them though I have had hookers and "normal" women try before, some undoubtedly succeeding. They have re-booked or cancelled other tricks just to see me at a time when I could see them. They have cried over frustrations in their lives and struggles with friends or family with me and I have talked them through it, through rough patches of different kinds, given them pep talks, and been there for them... and vice-versa. Call me a sentimental middle-aged fool, but when it comes to hookers, I go for LTRs/real Rs. And at least with these 3, they seem to also. Do they have the same thing with other tricks? I certainly hope so. No reason to limit yourself in terms of sexual or emotional partners, hooker or not. As for paying for sex with them: show me a man who DOESN'T pay for sex with a woman and I'll show you a gay man.
FINAL CONCLUSION: Be as GPS as you like. If your golden pussy is so fucking amazing you can charge $10,000/fuck for it, my dear, go right ahead. Just I won't be renting it from you any time soon.
Plus one
In all honesty, I agree with those referencing attitude over rates.
The point is, I have seen women w $1000 rates engage with others in a positive, genuine manner.
I've danced with women who charged $50-100 who had the MOST sour-puss behavior.
Cranium > Skull
I've read the word "skull" more times in this single post than reading a Human Anatomy syllabus.
I now realize my phobia of the word "skull". I just CAN'T.
Thank you for posting (your self-alert).
Originally Posted by Eva Damita