There isn't much family members can do to help an alcoholic/addict. Charlie needs to hit 'his' rock bottom before he will seek help.
Originally Posted by Ansley
I also agree with this.
Not that we shouldn't try...it's just a fine line between doing something that will really help and being an enabler (or doing something that will make it worse). Damn fine line sometimes. I have a number of friends with Bipolar Disorder and it can be a devastating disease. For what it is worth - the meds - the mood stabilizers (such as valproic acid) in combination with lithium can be quite successful in treating the disorder - particularly the acute manic episodes. Though about 30% of people diagnosed with the disorder do not respond to any available treatments... Lithium has gotten a fairly bad rap - which is too bad because used appropriately it can work quite successfully. But as others have mentioned - there are pretty severe side-effects and blood levels have to be monitored and patient compliance suffers from this. One of my friends constantly complains about the side-effects and also that she "likes being manic"...
In any event, I'm not one for too much speculation - something is up with Charlie and best course of action is - I believe - to get him out of our attention. This reminds me too much of watching journalist film "bad" things and not doing anything to help (not meaning to pick on journalist - I'm sure you get the point).
Mostly I wanted to say - if you are interested in Bipolar Disorder, there is an excellent book by Kay Jamison "An Unquiet Mind" on the topic. She has the somewhat unique perspective of having Bipolar Disorder and having a PhD to study it. Very good read to boot.
And if you are interested, "Darkness Visible" by William Styron (the author of "Sophia's Choice") is a good book about depression - it is Stryon's story of his own struggle with severe depression.
Y'all take care.
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