Coming Clean

I don't tell my parents that I have sex in this way just like I don't tell them when I have a boyfriend and we have sex. It's just really not their business. They also don't talk about their sex life at the dinner table...

You're able to come to the boards to talk about it and if that's not enough... Just mention to a few buddies about going to a strip club. Then when you are there, mention about extras you were offered once.. Eventually you will find the one, two, three or more people who have an open opinion of sex just like you.

Just a heads up, part of the fun of this is the thrill.. The taboo nature of it.. Just don't lose that part of it.

I am open with family and friends about my hobby. Still loved.

Don't need extra skeletons...

If it were legal and I didn't have an SO, i would probably open up about what I do with certain friends. If it were legal and I never had an SO, I would not hide it. I would explain it as my way of dating. I never really had any guilt with what I do-- just a desire not to get caught due to certain repressive views by some in society.

If it were legal and I didn't have an SO, i would probably open up about what I do with certain friends. If it were legal and I never had an SO, I would not hide it. I would explain it as my way of dating. I never really had any guilt with what I do-- just a desire not to get caught due to certain repressive views by some in society. Originally Posted by Cpalmson

Unless I were a 1%er like Charlie Sheen (Estevez) or Donald Sterling I probably wouldn't care. But I fall into that 99% where society would frown upon me.

Would you do us the honor of letting us know what you meant, I sincerely would hate it if the meaning of each person that took the time to post was lost? Originally Posted by GOJC

Why would you hate that???

Why would you hate that??? Originally Posted by Wakeup

I personally think it's a disservice misrepresented or misinterpreted.

If it were legal and I didn't have an SO, i would probably open up about what I do with certain friends. If it were legal and I never had an SO, I would not hide it. I would explain it as my way of dating. I never really had any guilt with what I do-- just a desire not to get caught due to certain repressive views by some in society. Originally Posted by Cpalmson

Agreed 100%

The few friends and family members I told over the years said they dont judge but they always do.. somewhere down the line it will be info that is used to make you feel like your doing/did something "bad"

I was going to list specific details of how and why- but decided it was long winded and boring.

lets just say I learned the hard way. I was a call girl for about 20 years and let a few people know along the way and it always turned out bad.

I personally think it's a disservice to be misrepresented or misinterpreted. Originally Posted by GOJC

I assume you meant the corrected version...I, on the other hand, find it funny...it's the Interwebs...its only constant is that everything is going to be misinterpreted or misrepresented...

Good catch on the typo, and what you said is very true concerning misinterpretation and misrepresentation.

I am aware that most hobbiest hide what they do from their SO. Are there any providers that have a SO that is clueless about what you do?

Yes

I am aware that most hobbiest hide what they do from their SO. Are there any providers that have a SO that is clueless about what you do? Originally Posted by GOJC

Yes, definitely.

I am aware that most hobbiest hide what they do from their SO. Are there any providers that have a SO that is clueless about what you do? Originally Posted by GOJC

Old-T is 100% correct. I've seen a few of them.

This is also common in the sugar world. Lots of married sugar babies out there. :O I personally stay away, but other do not.

A few of my friends know what I do but I only told those who I truly love and trust, some are vanilla and others are more open minded/alternative lifestyle leading people. It is lovely to be able to talk openly with those friends. My family would probably disown me so they will never know.