WTF? Is it my bad luck or what?

Cancels will happen, its a part of the business. It sucks, but it happens on both ends. The right thing to do is at least contact the individual and let them know you are going to cancel. However, they may be an instance where this doesn't happen. I know the last thing I want to do if i just got a phone call that a relative died is call a lady to say I won't be there. Not saying I wouldn't make that phone call, but i think it really depends on the relative.

WIth posting alerts I would at the very least give a few days, and contact the person to see what is going on. If you get some bullshit post an alert, or share the information. If its legit, give them a chance to make it up to you or simply just never see them again.

Angel in KC,

sorry that you werent able to provide those guys w/ a deliteful time.

but ken has it right on...

Cancels will happen, its a part of the business. ...However, they may be an instance where this doesn't happen. I know the last thing I want to do if i just got a phone call that a relative died is call a lady to say I won't be there. Not saying I wouldn't make that phone call, but i think it really depends on the relative.

WIth posting alerts I would at the very least give a few days, and contact the person to see what is going on. If you get some bullshit post an alert, or share the information. If its legit, give them a chance to make it up to you or simply just never see them again. Originally Posted by KenMonk

like ken, i suggest ...
you give the guy(s) a chance to explain themselves.
if you dont hear back from them, you can [but dont have to] let the other KC area woman know that those guy(s) didnt show.
unless you know for a fact why they no showed, just state the facts as you know them!! dont speculate why. that only leads to drama and b.s.


wrt dying or recently deceased relatives, there's an interesting NCNS in the dallas co-ed forum about it. again, we'll never know the truth, but there are lessons in all the screw-ups posted here on eccie.

it's on each of us to learn and then APPLY the lessons we glean from her, lest we post a thread about our similar screw-up.

I just don't fathom guys and girls that NCNS! At least put forth an effort, call, and make-up an excuse. NCNS's wastes everybodies time and creates undo drama and hard feelings!

I think, and I could be wrong, but I believe right now it is easy to "spook" a provider. Of course this works both ways. Clientele becoming quite spoked as well. Then again you could have just hit a string of bad luck. I am sorry to hear your having troubles though.

damm i hate that , i had 2 cancelation a few weeks ago while in houston. but both girls did contact me and go out of there way to find a lady for me ,, so it all worked out.. i was bummed most the day ..

that just comes with the job we do.... if you are working off of bp thats super commen but if your just using eccie or 411 thats kinda not so normal.. hope things get better though

thanks bailey and for all the other nice words of support

It hasnt happened since so i hope to keep it that way

jay just hit the nail on the head, I,ve had the same thing happen for 3 days now, thank goodness for regulars. the guy,s are very spooked or they ask stupid stuff on the phone, I think the quality of clients has dropped , due in part to the stings & also whatever bullshit the lawers are telling these people about the providers.