I don't do daty very often, primarily because I suck at it (no pun intended). I don't know what the fuck I am doing. Perhaps, I just need more practice.
Every woman's different...fast and furious doesn't work for everyone. Just relax and get her to tell you what works for her. But, one thing is universal...make sure your face is clean shaven. Do not go there with a 5 O'clock shadow and try to mow the lawn...if she's tender, you'll give her a burn that she's going to remember forever...if you have facial hair and it's course...be gentle.