Btw, so you see 1 provider starting a thread saying "oh, you poor loser douch bag. You thought I loved you? Oh no,no,no,no I'm going to set you straight ".Why is it ok for a hobbiest to continually say it's your whores fault for allowing this to happen. Even a MOD came whining to the board about after he had a great 10 yr relationship with clear rules about how his favorite provider lied to him. So it's all ok for guys to whine on every level from gold digging whore to the stupid whore who thought I would leave my wife but OMG a provider that said she was human. OMG to the provider that will one day post "hey sweetie how could you ever think I loved you ". You guys bitch on all of it anyways so at least one provider should step up to the plate and dish it right back.
Btw,I have NEVER wanted any man to leave his wife. I have NEVER wanted to be a mom to another's children. Thanks but I've done my time in raising children and that's more than enough for me. So again thanks whimpy for trying to lump everyone into nice labeled boxes. Remember that humans are very complex creatures that don't fit into boxes.
Originally Posted by FirePhoenix
FP, yours I think has been the best response so far. It's probably the guys that cross the line between fantasy and reality more often than the women. We are indeed cheating on our wives. I love my wife dearly and would never leave her. But at the same time I feel the temptation to indulge in something more than just sex with another woman. As much as I want an atf, I want women to think of me as their atf.
Most guys I think need an emotional connection to go along with the physical. But that is precisely why I pay for sex rather than pursue an affair. I want to enjoy sex while avoiding the temptation of falling into an emotional trap that will yield only pain in the long run. As much as I might like to be friends with all the women I meet, that friendship can extend only so far.
It's probably the guys that encourage and enable behavior that results in such pain. We shouldn't be blaming the women for it.