Sometimes, the chemistry isn't there.
Everyone has a feature, or a personality trait, that's appealing and when things go south, I try to consider that and I do recognize that sometimes, in such a personal business ... that sometimes a situation isn't the best.
It's rare that I've asked for an appointment to end prematurely. Have I done it? Yes. Have there been a few situations where I've had to be curt and tell someone to get out of my incall and even return his funds?
A few times.
But generally, if an appointment isn't going great, I try to make the best of it.
I call it the "Close your eyes and think of France" type of appointments. But honestly ... those are few and far between.
That's why I find screening to be so important. It goes further, for me, than just finding out if they're a safe appointment and a good person to have over.
I really try to get to know someone new before meeting them. Know their desires and wants. That type of screening, and requiring to speak to someone before getting together, really limits those type of negative/unpleasant encounters.
Just my thoughts in it.
If a female just isn't cutting it for you, but she's being professional and trying to do a great job for you, there is something to be said about being gracious about it.
There is an old yarn that I don't hear too much these days. This is a game for kings. If you cannot afford to lose an hour or two, and the funds to go with it, then you probably shouldn't be playing in these expensive fields.
Because I've never known a man who has done this several times, with many different women, who hasn't had a sub par experience for whatever reason.
It's just the type of business we're in. VERY personal. Very intimate and when two people are naked, and somewhat vulnerable, it's a different dynamic and the business model isn't like regular ...crap. I lost my direction of thought.
Think that I made my point anyway.
Warmly,
Elisabeth
Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers
I agree Elisabeth chemistry is everything and screening is even more important, also chatting with each other on the phone for a few minutes is very important as well, it allows you to get a feel for the person. It has worked very well for me in many cases.