My hobbying heart is broken

The title of your post says it all, the hobby is no place for your heart, take it as experience and leave your heart out of the hobby, its sole role is to pump blood so you can have a good time, keep it healthy and rock on!

IB

I hear you IB. The heart reference was tongue in cheek. My feet are firmly on the ground. I just wish I knew what turned her against me.

I keep my phone alerts on even when I'm asleep. Because of personal reasons I'm not able to turn them off. I think it's quite rude to text or call someone after midnight. I'm sure you guys would be quite irate if an escort texted you during off hours - partner/SO or not.

Maybe she will come around, maybe not. Next time be more courteous.

Only should have text her when you're ready for action.

Lesson learned. Thank you all.

Lesson learned. Originally Posted by Smpslt7

Better to find that attitude in a text than in a session.
You said you saw her a couple times, maybe this is what
its like for her and you just got the sugar coating for
your first experience.

I saw a girl while back first visit nice, before the second
she txt me got me thinking something was up. That session was
just OK and she was hitting for more $ I let her know call
me in a few days I would try to hit her up again. Similar
result her saying she would not see me anymore. I was like
NICE. See Ya!!!

So. Maybe hit her up in a couple weeks or don't and count
it as money and drama saved.

Happy Hobbying

At least you didn't do it for 10 years...

Everyone is going through something, you never know where her heart might be at. I have done this before with someone when I was in a sensitive spot and then quickly came back and touched base and apologized, they understood. Your response sounds perfectly reasonable, don't sweat it. If she's as cool as you say she'll probably be back. Originally Posted by JadeRose

Couldn't have said it better.

That may be if I had named her, but I did not name her.
If so, I guess I have to accept it. Originally Posted by Smpslt7

Have you reviewed her?

I already asked that but he won't give a name. Prob CSB.

That may be if I had named her, but I did not name her.
If so, I guess I have to accept it. Originally Posted by Smpslt7

She knows who she is......

At least you didn't do it for 10 years... Originally Posted by Observing

Hey, it was fun while it lasted!

You guys (and girls) must think I'm still butthurt about it, but she isn't worth spending any more time/thought on. I've moved on to someone truly awesome (of course, I've been wrong before....)


z

roll the dice brother, get on another streak. Life is short.

Me too:

That is just so wrong! I would rather use my hands! 😀

Personally I prefer the autoblow2, easier to hide