How "dressed up" do you expect her to be...

I always have my make-up, hair and nails (fingers and toes) done for all of my dates. I wear no fragrances due to my own allergies and not to leave a lasting scent lingering with gentleman friends.

When hosting incall dates I generally wear lingerie and heels, unless I receive a specific request. I do not often wear stockings only because I've been unsuccessful at finding the correct size. At only 4'11 and 98 lbs, I find that most are too long and too loose in the thighs. If anyone has any suggestions for such in very small sizes, I'd love to hear them.

When going to an outcall date, it really depends on where I am going and what we are doing. For dinner I may wear a little black dress and heels. Lunch nice dress pants and cute top with kitten heels or possibly a sun dress. Sometimes I wear nice jeans, cute top and heels. Again, it all depends on who I'm seeing (if I know what they prefer), time of day and planned events.

hello gentlemen..

for the men who typically and often visit with the high rated providers ($350+ per hour) Upon arrival to her in-call after time spent anticipating and daydreaming .....

how dressed up (or down) do you expect your lady of choice to be?
Stilettos , lingerie, stockings, garters, hair, makeup, jewels ... the whole nine????
Is it a bummer and turn off if she isn't ? Or do men even care?

Rate does not determine level of service but is that attire simply EXPECTED?

Ladies who dont mind chiming in that are not apart of that $350+ range ? Do you still dress to impress for each and every client? Heels? Stockings and garters... jewels??

....I DO know that I take a good amount of time getting ready before each appt. to practically wear nothing at all Originally Posted by phoenixfire_

Depends on my mood and whether it's outcall or incall. For outcall, discretion usually demands something that won't draw too much attention. For incall, bare-ass nekkid is a great option, along with lingerie, and even PJ's for a first thing in the morning appointment. One of the sexiest looks I've seen was a little black dress, just thrown on two seconds before I knocked on the door with the girl still straightening it as she opened the door. BTW, incall or outcall, unless you're dressed in only a lingerie ensemble no panties! As a matter of fact, clothed upper body with naked lower body is another sexy look.

I am always freshly showered, manicured and pedicured. I have answered the door in my bathrobe and my hair in a towel. Not by choice, but by surprise (he arrived earlier than expected). He didn't seem to mind.

For incalls, depending on the vibe I get from a gentleman, the really cool, laid back vibe, I'll answer the door in jeans and a t-shirt and socks. After some brief conversation, I excuse myself for a minute and disappear in my bedroom. In literally 1 or 2 minutes, I emerge in lingerie, babydoll nightie, stockings with or without garters, and stilettos (I had most of my lingerie on under my clothes already). Or, I come out with long black gloves, stilettos, and a fluffy feather boa wrapped around myself.

For outcalls, I dress for the atmosphere of where I'll be going. And I still adhere to the adage, no white after labor day. One of my favorite outfits is a black pinstripe suit. A classic that never goes out of style. Of course I have a couple of little black dresses. Another classic. I have some light, airy summer dresses I like to wear. I do not wear stilettos when I go out. The cobblestones of New Orleans can be hazardous (twisted my ankle once). My shoes and bags match in color.

I wear very little make up, a little mascara, maybe some translucent powder. I rarely wear lipstick, unless its requested. Sometimes I wear a light perfume. I don't wear much jewelry, maybe pearls with the black dress or a pin on my suit.

It is a joy to see the expression on a mans face when he answers the door to a well dressed, sexy woman on the other side. For me, that alone is worth every effort taken to make that happen.

This is awl good except the perfume. Many guys should not risk the scent of another woman and some guys, like me, are allergic to strong scents. I say this even though I love how scent can intoxicate you and I don't have a SO. Seriously, none of the high end girls I see use any scent, at least made by man. Originally Posted by awl4knot

Noted. That's why P411 is helpful, I can just read the gent profile and see if he likes it or not. I can always ask beforehand. I do love perfume lol.

I am always dressed to the "nines". Presentation and being "polished" for every client is key

Here is a short video of me, before my client arrived, this was at 8am.
https://youtu.be/CQFUnTdLw2c

... After some brief conversation, I excuse myself for a minute and disappear in my bedroom. In literally 1 or 2 minutes, I emerge in lingerie, babydoll nightie, stockings with or without garters, and stilettos (I had most of my lingerie on under my clothes already). Or, I come out with long black gloves, stilettos, and a fluffy feather boa wrapped around myself.

[ ... ] Originally Posted by Nicolet

It amazes me, how quickly some of you ladies can change out what you're wearing. I visited with Gigi the Gartered Gypsy earlier this year. She joined me in the shower, (obviously) completely naked except for a shower cap. She left ahead of me, but not by more than a minute or two. When I got toweled off and came out of the bathroom, she was already wearing one of those complicated retro-ladies'-underthings outfits for which she is known (see her showcase for the general idea), hair all perfect ... I don't know how many moving parts were involved in her lingerie, but I do know I was invited to remove it, and after some fumbling around with my ten thumbs, I pretty much had to say "uncle" and let her do it. It didn't occur to me until the next day, when I was busy savoring my memories of a wonderful evening, to ask myself: how did she put that outfit on so fast? Anyway, my hat's off to all of you for your speed and dexterity.

Among many other reasons, that is.

Most important thing for me regarding attire is that it is appropriately discreet for any time spent in public with me and/or getting to the door for an outcall. Discretion trumps any specific look.

If I'm just knocking on her door and she's yanking me inside I really don't care what she's wearing and will help her get out of it as quickly as possible.

Originally Posted by atlcomedy

I didn't think I'd ever find myself agreeing with a fellow with an avatar like atlcomedy's, but I think he's spot on. If she's coming to my outcall, I need her to dress discreetly - she has to look like she belongs. If I'm going to her place, I don't care what she's wearing, within reason - ease of removal is at the top of the list.

Not a member of the 350 club (not when touring Iowa anyways) but how I dress it well I go by requests and best try to accommodate them. I've been asked to wear striped sweaters lol, jeans and a tank top, sweatpants, sundress, something with garters & stockings....list goes on.

Clients with request amaze me at times. I ran track all through school so the athletic clients who are leg guys always request that I wear a pair of short shorts Nike Pros with heels Lol

While the clothes you wear is not high on my list. A lady who prepares and puts in the effort goes to the top of my list! It shows she cares about herself and the service she provides. She will have earned my respect!

Depends for me. I'm easy to please but appreciate when a provider puts a lot of effort into their appearance and would catch the eye of every guy at the bar on our way to the restaurant.

But for those dates that never leave the room, a dress is entirely optional. Sometimes I just want to be met at the door by a gorgeous woman wearing nothing but a smile and a pair of heels.

Don't get me wrong. I prefer a woman in this range who's dressed to make my jaw drop but sometimes the sheer shock of an amazing body on full display is the perfect way to begin an evening.

I dress to impress EVERY single meeting, whether you are a regular, my in call or an out call. I believe we sell a fantasy. Unless requested to NOT wear makeup, lotions or deodorant.... When I greet you at the door I want to always WOW you! The wow factor never gets old.

XO

Alexia I like your style!!

I dress to impress EVERY single meeting, whether you are a regular, my in call or an out call. I believe we sell a fantasy. Unless requested to NOT wear makeup, lotions or deodorant.... When I greet you at the door I want to always WOW you! The wow factor never gets old. Originally Posted by Alexiareign

It is the fantasy that gets us to the door, but how we're greeted by the lovely women that open it keep us coming back for more.

Oh, and Alexia, if you ever make it up to my area, PLEASE let me know in advance!

It is the fantasy that gets us to the door, but how we're greeted by the lovely women that open it keep us coming back for more.

Oh, and Alexia, if you ever make it up to my area, PLEASE let me know in advance! Originally Posted by Chaz108

I am Manhattan often! Please come meet me in the city.