How Did You Find Out About This World?

I was on a guys trip to New Zealand a few years ago. I was the last one out of town because of how I'd booked my flights. The last night there, I thought I was checking out a strip club. I found a girl to talk to. I asked if there was someplace more quiet to talk. We went to the hostess stand and I paid for the VIP treatment. She took me upstairs and asked if I wanted a shower. She jumped in with me and we had fun washing each other.
Once on the bed, she started getting me real hard and gave me a cbj. I never noticed her putting it on. After a few minutes she climbed on. I freaked out until I realized I had a condom on. She rode me until I came. When she climbed off and layed next to me, I told her that was not what I was expecting.
That's how I got involved. 18 months later I was in NYC for a business trip. I was having drinks with clients in the lobby bar. They left and I had one more. I boldly asked the bartender if he knew of anyone in the room that would like to spend time with me. Since we were in the Wall Street area, he motioned to a girl in the back. I took her up to my room and the rest is history.
Being in the travel industry for the last 15+yrs as a flight attendant... let's just say there was more to layovers than just hitting the pillow after a long flight.
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Always knew I would eventually seek out P4P, even before I had free4P!
Had a run in or two in a champagne room of a strip club and even saw a "massage girl" with happy endings a time or two. The first time was a complete surprise. Her ad looked legit and she worked out of a residence. I really did not expect the ending.
I really got into P4P becaue I was in a relationship and wanted variety. I had been decent pulling NSA hookups, but it was becoming too risky and time consuming. I was on craigslist, on there personals. I saw a news report on providers using craigslist, so I checked out the "erotic" section.
One of the girls had "ASPD reviewed" in her ad. I though "what a crock of shit, I am sure it's some webcam site" I took a look and once I realized it was legit, I lurked for a month or so then jumped in head first!!
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I was living 30 miles north of W. Palm Beach Florida. Llittle did I know at the time that I was located 30 miles north of "Hobby Heaven". One night was searching for a strip club on the internet and came across a Strip club review site that also listed Escorts. So I check a few of them out and one had a link to TER. Needless to say, I never made it to the Strip Club(lol) and just started reading and researching for hours. I "shopped" all the agencies till I found the girl i wanted and two days later, after a shot of whisky, I made the call and three hours later I was at her incall. The biggest shock came when she said to "get comfortable" and she was nekked before I got my socks off.(lol)
BTW Tiffany I love your post, that was very sweet of you. I bet there are lot of guys who wished they'd had a wife/partner like you! Originally Posted by MLisa
I just now saw this! Thanks sweetie! How nice!
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Had always seen the ads in the yellow pages and figured they were scams or stings. It wasn't till a few years back (early to mid '07) that I was down in Rockport, Tx and saw the typical CL news report coming from a channel out of Corpus Christi, Tx. I remember it showed exactly where to look on CL and explained what some of the 'code' (pricing & alphabet soup) meant. From there I noticed a few ladies w/ aspd in their ads, so I checked out aspd.......and the rest, as they say, is history. Originally Posted by BigBudha
Can I suggest the media, in response to all of the LE inquiries into CL, gave more guys a "how to" playbook than any other source, and but not for the LE interest it never would have been of interest to the media?
I was in Nevada one year ago, consistently earning almost 10X my currently hourly rate, poshed up, dolled up in a 5-star suite with VIP access. I knew the Texas hobby would be Plan B if something went wrong, which it did, having to abandon a "playground" for serious-ness. I will say, Vegas is where it is at! It's liberating to know that I was once one of those girls who charged an hourly fee higher than HDHs. Originally Posted by Angelina Adams
"It's liberating to know that I was once one of those girls who charged an hourly fee higher than HDHs"

Thanks for the smile....

And you're in my backyard and we have not shared a laugh face to face. How wrong of me.
When you live just a few minutes from the former well known "Chicken Ranch" .... well what do you expect?
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I had known about escorts thru the local classifieds and the phone book and many years ago I got caught in a sting where I was jailed for a weekend (not here where I live now somewhere else). I had seen the ads on BP and CL but never knew about ASPD or ECCIE. I was online trying to figure out how to find a quality woman that was not LE and I think went to BP and an ad mentioned ASPD. I had NO idea what that was. I googled it, and like the person that started this thread, my reaction was "HOLY SHIT!!!" I had no idea sites like ASPD and Eccie were around. I love this place. If i could hobby once a week I would but the economy is hurting me much like everyone else. So I only get to hobby about 2 or 3 times a year.
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This board was mentioned in a thread on a Michigan board - so I came and liked the sight and feel of thisplace. I have since sent many of my fellow hobbyists to this destination.
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As an innocent lad of 17 years old I went with family to visit friends in Tulsa, Ok. I had never more than kissed a girl before so when the eldest son (Jon) of those friends took me for a ride to places unknown I had no idea what was in store for me. I knew he was the black sheep of the family and he proved his reputation was well earned. We went to a small place with the name Temperature Rising and I could hear the music blasting out before we walked in.

As we walked in I was stunned to see a topless girl walking into a back area- I had only seen naked breasts in Playboy and Penthouse before. It was an instant jolt of adrenaline and other hormones. My corrupting influence ( the black sheep) led me a to a bar stool and ordered us beers. I was familar with the high beer gave me but combined with the scene of scanitily clad girls and a throbbing beat from the sound system it was an even more intoxicating atmosphere. I noticed that several of the girls wold stop by and flirt with Jon and give me a full on view of their goods. It wasn't until later that I understood why.

After a few beers Jon moved us over to the main stage where one of the girls that had stopped by earlier came on. She made eye contact with me as soon as she came on stage and I never looked away. Her first song she smiled at me and slowly removed her top. I will never forget those cute little titties- I was in another world. She kept dancing right in front of me and after the first song leaned over and spoke to me. I have no idea what she said and really had no idea of where I was or what was happening.
When her second song started she moved away and then made her way back in front of me. She smiled at me again and I had no awareness of anything else in the world other than her. She proceeded to slowly untie the strings to her bottom and let it fall away. I was in blissful shock. She then squatted down with her legs spread wide and with her pussy inches away from my face slid her finger into it. OMG!!!

After this out of the world experience Jon moves us back to the main bar. The girl who just recently made all my schoolboy dreams come true stopped by to ask for a ride home. Jon asks me if that is okay with me and who am I to say anything? We give her ( I have no idea of her name as much as I wish I did; it would make for a better story) a ride to a small house and go in. I've already had more alcohol and excitement than ever before so I have lost all contact with normal life. Jon is no where to be seen and Miss X is smiling at me again and I am in dreamland. A short trip to her bedroom and her soft lips on my hard on and life will never be the same.
She might have done it just for the thrill of taking my cherry but I doubt it.
Around 92-93 Rick's here in Houston was in its heyday with some of the most beautiful women ever (Anna Nicole Smith, Penthouse 20th pet Lynn Johnson, Mrs Texas Nipal Romero). I had to have a beer each time I went in before I stopped shaking. The most beautiful mostly Asian woman would give me a hand job. One day after about 2-3 years she was fired.

By then I had bought my first computer and had AOL access for like $10 a month and found alt.sex.strip-clubs and read about a nice asian woman in another Houston club that gave hand jobs. It wasn't her but I got my $60 handjob under the table in the middle of the club and the woman said that I was the third guy that day to mention assc.

I did more research on the web about strip clubs and found out about TUSCL.com. By then I was going to the clubs from once a month to once a week and had either gotten laid, blown or jerked off in every club in Houston except The Mens Club (which still holds true). Then around 2000-1 I found out about ASPD.net. I actually registered the first time with my real name thinking the place would never take off.

By then the interweb was full force and I started going to Nuevo Laredo in MX and Wildflowers, Escape and Latin Sensations here in Houston.

FWIW, I found my mostly asian chick at Centerfolds about 7 years later one Sunday after Thanksgiving and took her to a hotel for a revenge fuck after her boyfriend had embarrassed her at his mothers.
I grew up during the 60's in Texas. Everyone knew about the Chicken Ranch! <wink>
I didnt know how naive i was..Friends future wife asked me to find him a stripper for a surprise since they were going to get married in a week ..so we had a party and i made some phone calls..I diidnt realize how hard it was just to get a stripper without the extras..lol
Then about 3 or 4 yrs later i was out in vegas with friends and got hit on while sitting at a slot machine and of course i was too stupid to take her up on it and from there we went to Reno and myself and my friend and his wife were sitting at a dinner table in a very popular casino and we saw a guy who heard us talking about being from Texas and he asked us to join him and 2 of his lady friends..I was lucky and got seated next to one of the gals..next thing i knew she had hand on my leg and asked me how much i planned on spending in casino that night.
She and her friend had a better way of spending money..
she gave me a name of her agency and on the computer i went to discover the world of hobby.
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Anyone remember this 80's movie?


That's where I first 'learned' of this world through that movie. Then one day when I was out of high school, I was looking through the local newspaper and answered an ad for "Lingerie Modeling"... lo and behold it was an escort agency. Shortly after I found out about The Dallas Observer, Fort Worth Weekly, and Backpage. I was looking through the 'adult jobs' and 'escorts' pages and found a link back to ASPD and a few others.