Need Advice ASAP Date this tonight!

In my experience, ladies don't get back to me for days. I just figured 2 hours was nearly impossible.

Of course, my experiences are very few and very far between. I grow old waiting on call backs. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Usually, P411 requests take little to no time to respond to. However, ladies (including myself) may need a little more time if you are relying on references as well. Two days sounds about right in my experience of getting responses from references.

How old is he? If he is over 40, doubtful he is LE.

Plus, I can't see the cops going to all of this trouble.

I think it is too late now for advice. Hopefully she is being pounded into erotic bliss at this very moment after a lavish romantic meal

Usually, P411 requests take little to no time to respond to. However, ladies (including myself) may need a little more time if you are relying on references as well. Two days sounds about right in my experience of getting responses from references.

Originally Posted by Lovelyelle_01

I understand the P411 system. I used to try and schedule a week or more in advance of the date. For the most part, I discovered a lot of ladies were not attuned to that time frame. I have since reduced it to no more than a week from the date, and no less than 2 days from the date. I seem to have remarkable trouble with my system. I've gotten to the point where it's an "AHA" just to get a response. I can almost cum from that alone. lol. But inherently, I know it's NOT from requesting a last minute date. And, I do take my age into consideration, and try NOT to request dates from ladies who might find the age differential creepy. And it's not that my OKs are not well known. They are. Even when you check with them, most ladies will recognize most of my OKs.

Hi all and thank you all for your responses. I am brand new here and it’s nice to find such and active board with so many willing to help. J I wanted to get back here soon but have been sick. And what a wide array of answers!

I did not end up going and after the fact I did indeed feel it was my paranoia from reading the board here. That being said this guy has now called/emailed/texted 7 times in two days. One thing I have never trusted is one that is too eager, especially with so many other choices out there.

While I agree with much of the responses here I have to respectfully disagree with you Charles when you say “A meet and greet has no place in the hobby”. While it may not be your style and is not for everyone; the gentlemen I see absolutely love and appreciate the idea. It is not always a full dinner, sometimes just drinks at a piano bar, or attend a business event etc….Heck this month I went to a St. Pats party and even attended a baseball game (additional $$ of course) along with fun afterward. J Then again what I do is different than most, I consider myself a full escort not it’s not just about the physical intimacy. There’s something out there for everyone JI see many regulars as they like that style and prefer it that way. I have created some very nice “friendships” along the way it’s it much safer than constantly someone new.

Learing a lot from everyone here!

Dee ~

... I goggled his number and did find that it lead me to about 10 different things he has for sale, real-estate properties etc… all of the add’s did indicate that he does indeed live in the same area of where we are to meet tonight.

What do you think? Originally Posted by DeeFL

What do I think? I think the man doesn't own a hobby phone.