Trouble adjusting to a straight life?

For me personally, I remain linked to real world/vanilla life due to my career being a major part of my life, vs my life being solely the hobby. I find my excitement here, and for me to maintain and appreciate the Hobby, I feel it necessary to still be in my real world hobbies/career/family.

I also found being submerged in Hobbyland alone segregates one from everything else - at least it had for me.

Again , good luck on adjusting! I'm super happy for you! Originally Posted by Eva Damita

I VERY much have a personal life outside of the hobby. But this is the first time that it will NOT include any hobbying what so ever.

And lets face it....none of ladies have been fucking just one man. THAT is going to be VERY different for me.

I have been in the industry since 18. In the last 5 years that I've been in the hobby, many of my friends have gotten married and/or had kids and started families. I feel like I missed out on the part of normalcy in my dating life, but I've never felt so closer and "in tune" to myself as a single woman living, and loving life.

Also, after being in the hobby, I realized that monogamy is just not my thing. If I ever abandon the hobby and fall in love, God help that man because his ass would have to be down with going to swinger's clubs. Nonetheless, It would take one hell of a good dick to make me exclusive.

Even though I have a regular job, the complete transition for me back to regular life would be a very, very, hard one. Actually, I'd rather not even think about it. The money is just too good . . . for now.

I hear ya on that one.

I have a legit business but it is so fun knowing you can have naughty fun and still enjoy the fruits of it.

It makes normal dating life seem so boring.

I have been in the industry since 18. In the last 5 years that I've been in the hobby, many of my friends have gotten married and/or had kids and started families. I feel like I missed out on the part of normalcy in my dating life, but I've never felt so closer and "in tune" to myself as a single woman living, and loving life.

Also, after being in the hobby, I realized that monogamy is just not my thing. If I ever abandon the hobby and fall in love, God help that man because his ass would have to be down with going to swinger's clubs. Nonetheless, It would take one hell of a good dick to make me exclusive.

Even though I have a regular job, the complete transition for me back to regular life would be a very, very, hard one. Actually, I'd rather not even think about it. The money is just too good . . . for now. Originally Posted by Adrienne Baptiste

That was a great honest post, You can have all the things your friends have now later in life, You're at the best age of your life (the 20s) enjoy it and stack your $ for the future.

I have been in the industry since 18. In the last 5 years that I've been in the hobby, many of my friends have gotten married and/or had kids and started families. I feel like I missed out on the part of normalcy in my dating life, but I've never felt so closer and "in tune" to myself as a single woman living, and loving life.

Also, after being in the hobby, I realized that monogamy is just not my thing. If I ever abandon the hobby and fall in love, God help that man because his ass would have to be down with going to swinger's clubs. Nonetheless, It would take one hell of a good dick to make me exclusive.

Even though I have a regular job, the complete transition for me back to regular life would be a very, very, hard one. Actually, I'd rather not even think about it. The money is just too good . . . for now. Originally Posted by Adrienne Baptiste

That'll be tough, poor guy.

Life's a journey AB, different life experiences make us who we are. You'll be amazed in 20 years how much of a different person you'll be than you are now as you gain more experiences.

If your new life is in anyway related to the hobby. You will fail miserably. If you are true to yourself you will find happiness.. Be ambitious good luck to you.

I have always admired you. I am always here if you need to talk, let me know if you need my number. I will always be here for you. You can also email me anytime.

If your new life is in anyway related to the hobby. You will fail miserably. If you are true to yourself you will find happiness.. Be ambitious good luck to you. Originally Posted by Pillikari

Great point, I'd leave everything and everyone from the hobby behind.

So here is what i told my daughters about life and love.

Love is wonderful but never expect perfection in a man. It doesn't happen. Date with your eyes open, be aware of a man's flaws and decide if you can live with them.

But always keep this in mind.... Men will lie for sex...a lot. Making them wait a little will tell you if they are interested in you, or just sex.

Kaylee... You can find love and you can be exclusive. Use your good judgement to tell if men want you or just sex.

Best of luck...
Vic

I VERY much have a personal life outside of the hobby. But this is the first time that it will NOT include any hobbying what so ever.

And lets face it....none of ladies have been fucking just one man. THAT is going to be VERY different for me. Originally Posted by Kayleehotchick

However, it's not like they never heard of sex where you're going. Might be something you could indulge in there?
Just saying, it's still fun no matter what language.

Thanks Vic!

Congrats Kaylee..I am sure once u save the Orcas you willno longer think about this world.

I'm adjusting to not works nearly as much and living part time abroad. It dies take you out of your normal rhythms. My single piece of advice is is yiu start fee,ing disoriented or missing your old life, don't worry about it during the first year of the transition. Those feelings fade and your new life becomes the new normal. And those things you don't like after 6-12 Months, you can adjust.

That'll be tough, poor guy.

Life's a journey AB, different life experiences make us who we are. You'll be amazed in 20 years how much of a different person you'll be than you are now as you gain more experiences. Originally Posted by TheEccie214

Plus One Million. And for most, it takes less than 20 years to mature into a different person - it did for me. That said, having dollar signs in your eyes gets replaced with other life aspirations that matter more than $$$...

That was a great honest post, You can have all the things your friends have now later in life, You're at the best age of your life (the 20s) enjoy it and stack your $ for the future. Originally Posted by biglatinmale

Thanks BLM.