being a newbie friendly provider??

Hey, Naraku! I like your avatar. ��

Thanks for this post. The hardest thing is trying to get into the hobby and to be a "hobbyist" with references starting out. When I find someone that piques my interest I don't want to try and find someone else first to give me a reference just so I can provide something to the person I was interested in first lol. If that makes sense. Any guidance on the best way to get verified or to be able to start out right away confidently being able to assure I am who I say I am and assure the provider their safety at the same time?

Im a newbie, what site should I use to complete screening / background check since p411 is not accepting new members from the US?

I'm not a newbie but I am considered one here. I was a BP troll before I ran across this site about a year ago. Since then I was fortunate to have a couple encounters with some lovely ladies from this site. Needless to say neither one did much screening. I see the security concerns on both parties. Everyone needs to feel relaxed when meeting for the first time. I did more screening on the BP ladies then they did on me. With that being said my encounters have been far and few since traveling with work has been hectic. So I guess I'm back to square one starting over trying to get the references needed to see some of these lovely ladies that this site has to offer.

I'm been on P411 since its started. However I'm new to ECCIE and although I haven't tried getting a date feel like I'm a newbie. There are 25 girls I recognize on ECCIE that are also on P411. So I guess I'll keep booking with them and then do a review and get credit. Then maybe you ECCIE only girls will feel more comfortable.

Sir you are a smart man.. even tho you have p411 I still will ask for screening info
on very person that want's to meet with me
from 3 okay's or 200 okays I'm going to ask the last 3-4 ladies you have seen in the last 6mo's
about you ..

I was a newbie last year and it was tough to get started, but it made me feel a lot safer to get screened by a well established provider with lots of positive reviews. I was nervous but my guess is you will have a better experience screening heavy and not cutting corners to make yourself more at ease when you meet him. If they won't give the information then politely pass and they may well come back as newbie providers are limited. I also started with P411 and my first provider still asked for a lot of information and I was happy to provide it because I felt like she was established and safe. Anyway, just my two cents if you want newbie money you can be tough on screening because they know anyone worth seeing will demand it. Be safe, all the best, Billy Originally Posted by Billysilly

I Do NOT Require you to have References

I love the new guys a lot .. I can screen any one if they let me and give me the info I requested when I send them a email with my screening forum ..
I do all my screening by email only
I have it set up to be easy and fast .

But You have to be willing to be screen ..

When I'm given a ladies info as your refes I do a screening on her as well , make sure she on the up & up
been around more then a year ... Lucky for me the refes I do get are on the same page as me .

I got lucky. I was a BP and CL hobby man. I was friends with a guy who told me about ECCIE. He had been on it since early on.
He was my reference with the first few ladies I hooked up with.
So, for me it was easy. He told me about ECCIE, he even told me what ladies he thought were best to hook up with.

Girls who demand references will miss out. I find one girl, and see her regularly. The last girl I was seeing retired, deleted her profiles, and changed her phone number. So although I have been around for about 10 years, I have no references. However, I often offer to meet and greet for dinner at a nice restaurant for the first meeting. Then from there, the girl can decide if she wants to meet me again.