To the OP, I am unaware of any public or private inference that you are now or ever have been associated with LE. If you have any information to document that someone is spreading such rumors, please PM it to ANY or ALL of the Arkansas mods (including Elisabeth Whispers) and we will investigate it.
Having been around this hobby for a long time, I would suggest that sometimes the people who you believe have your interest at heart are merely looking for an advantage. The shoulder to cry on often comes with expectations, and there is no such thing as a true confidante from the membership of an escort website. It's true the whole world over...
Choose your friends wisely, screen well and be safe out there.
Huck