So, is it "uncivil" for me to call a gal and say: Hi Im flinde. I'm horned up and saw those pink nips in your new ECCIE avatar pic and want some time with you at lunchtime today"? I dont think it is "uncivil" to do so, provided that I am civil while calling.
Originally Posted by flinde
I wouldn't say your example is uncivil.
While I appreciate the gents that book in advance, I totally understand the itch.
Let me preface by saying I agree with the OP in that, clients should be cordial and respect a lady and her way of doing business. On the other hand, and forgive me if this question sounds condescending but... what could possibly take 2 days to screen someone? I assume one answer is going to be waiting on provider okays. If I waited on provider references for every client that wanted to see me I would probably be missing out on a lot of business and loosing easy-to-book-with-points. A gent with an itch to scratch just might get tired of waiting and book with the lady they have seen before. There have been instances and big drama behind providers deterring their client from seeing another once they find out they have been used as a reference. Dirty I know, but it happens. I rarely ask for provider okays anymore. I am pretty newbie friendly (my spidey-senses shall prevail!). I mean, a hobbyist has to start somewhere! Even though I find little relevance for them, I am always open to promptly give an okay; so feel free to pm me.
Here are some ways to simplify or eliminate waiting for provider ok.
1. Check the gents posts. You can assess if he has congenial qualities by his posting style and phone presence.
2. Check the gents reviews.
3. Sometimes you can quickly call a lady and simply ask. I recommend always shooting the lady a quick pm first. Including the gents handle and your showcase link is a great way to let the lady verify your phone # with your handle so she knows it's a provider calling. It will also help jog the ladies memory of the client if you can tell her how many times, when, and where he saw her. If you ask the gent for this info initially, it might save you time from p.m.ing back and forth with the provider.
4. Ask if the gent has a P411 or date-check (of course)
5. Search for the gents handle in the alerts section.
Over all I think waiting for a provider ok is overrated. One day the guy could be on cloud 9 and the best client ever. He could totally flip the script running on low blood sugar the next encounter and be a total asshole. Even worse, he could be a complete sociopath and see many providers all while gaining the okays and then flip out one day.
So before I get shit for simply stating the other side to screening; I understand the added comfort of an OK, but please don't solely rely on this or let it prolong your TCB. Most of all don't let an OK allow your intuition to fall complacent.
Anyway, if there are any other reasons why screening takes longer than 15 minutes please let me know. I'm really curious. I truly would like to help ladies here feel safe and efficient.
