Ah, figging... Of course, I think it was originally an English public school thing dating back to Victorian times. Originally Posted by Gryphonoriginally it was for show-horses and show-dogs to make their tails stick out.
Back to spanking... don't know about spanking to orgasm but I've had a not-so-secret thing for spanking as long as I've known about sex but thought it was weird. However, I've been pleasantly surprised how many vanilla providers seem to enjoy light spanking as foreplay.
Then again maybe they just provide the illusion of enjoyment.