So are you guys saying that if you connected with someone on here and she was a provider .. if she wanted you to start a sugar daddy relationship with her ... even if she was looking for a new type of arrangement
Originally Posted by MissCaliMonroe
I am saying it would never happen in a million years.
1) You are not that attractive to me (I can have any coed that wants a sugar daddy)
Why would I want a provider, because they are better in bed at moaning?
2) I wouldnt have one that was a provider EVER.
3) Most providers wouldnt fit because they a little hard on the inside because of what you do.
Few other little reasons but you get the point.
Well I am sorry you are bitter about it but that doesn't mean that there isn't a perfect suitor for every girl .. stripper .. provider .. sugar baby .. etc ....
Honey don't worry I was not asking you to be my sugar daddy I was simply having a discussion .. You obviously are VERY bitter towards providers ... which makes me wonder .. if thats how you feel why are you even on this board?
Like I said I may not be YOUR type .. thank you for pointing out ... but I might be someone elses
I ve had a suggardady met him on sugardady4me he was cool til he became too dam needy. But everyone has their type and needs and Kaleigh youre hot babe..
You want to be a sugar baby you will take a loss. Save your money, a sugar daddy is hard to find.
Originally Posted by Gotyour6
Hate to say it, but I agree wholeheartedly here. The main reason a SD is hard to find is because most women do not realize that you can't really "find " one. THEY are the ones who do the choosing. A gentleman who is capable of being the true definition of a SD is not at all interested in women who are looking to "find" him. In their eyes, women looking to find a SD are nothing more than gold digging vultures.
I have had a REAL LIFE SD before (I did NOT meet him online). It lasted for three years, and we parted on amicable terms once I expressed my desire to pursue a real relationship (he was married). We are very good friends who still keep in contact, and he has been a rock solid source as far as guidance is concerned. There is a LOT that goes into maintaining a healthy and successful SD/SB relationship. It requires a deeper level of sincere honesty, TREMENDOUS trust, patience, and sacrifice. These are things that MOST women can't conceive when dealing with someone (who they may have inadvertently labeled as a $ sign) that has not actually put a ring on their finger.
You make some great points Kaleigh, and especially your post, Lovelyelle. I gave that sugardaddy for u a shot, not much of an effort on my part, since too many questions left unanswered. Too much trouble not to mention the site was upgrade this and that for e-mails, and who really knows who you were talking to. To date, I still get someone has viewed your profile, hurry up and upgrade to send e-mails, which goes to my spam box.
I have had pornstars contact me and quote some pretty high prices, unless your a CEO, that probably won't work for me at least.
To add to Lovelyelle, I think the SD/SB relationship should fall into place if the situation is right w/o all this online web stuff. The relationship like all is a two way street goes both ways and click to a certain degree. Lovelyelle, that was my point and you hit right on the ball, the ladies were asking X amount when I didn't know anything really on them. I can't speak on all guys but I like to think majority want to get to know a gal for this type of arrangement and that takes time, which some not all aren't willing to do from what I noticed, so it is my opinion on this.
I don't mind taking care of woman but it is all in how she approaches it and treats me too. Yes, I agree they are very difficult to have. If you find the right one, it could be pretty fun and exciting!
For a stripper or provider there is a a person for them. Like I said, some are looking for a hooker on retainer.
Oh, by I would never have a provider as a sb means I never heard of a sd ever have an ex provider as a real sugar baby. You can find guys that want to pay you so much for a visit so many times a month. Have at it.
Not bitter about providers at all. I have seen tons of providers think they know what they are doing and think they can switch. They don't, never seen it, I doubt i ever will. I am not bitter towards providers. I am bitter at the ones that distort sugar babys and sugar daddys. Everyone has that I have known and met have. I can spot you as soon as you walk in a coffee shop.
The reason I am on this board is because it has more than just providers but coming from one that wants to be a sugar baby it is expected that you think this board is all about you. See how just by a few posts I can start to figure things out.
Good luck.
Fascinating. There is something for everyone. This gent who posted above me clearly wants the true GFE in a far more literal term than providers and hobbyists use, but there could just as well be a very wealthy man who will look at one of you fine ladies and decide he would give his world for you.
In the end though whether a stripper, a SB, an escort, a body rub specialist, etc a provider is a provider. If it comes with a price tag, even expected spoiling, you have yourself a provider. The better test would be, if you were poor, would the girl still give you the time of day? If so, she probably isn't a provider.
That's how I see it, but that might be a bit too forward so no offense in advance.
Some will give me the time of day and some won't.
I have had gurks not want money and just wanted the door opened for them and soneone to talk with, have a nice dinner with. We are all whores, sbs, providers, blah blah blah.
I have the money so I am a sugar daddy and fucking love it. Is there a difference in definition? Maybe not. Don't care why she is with me. Not my concern. If I said i was broke would she stay with me? I hope not.
I want a sugar baby, not a wife or girl friend. I am young, in shape and loaded. I can get either one of those.
If she stayed with me she wouldn't be a sugar baby. So i would hope she would leave. We arent saying what they are, I am explaining the difference of how they act. A provider has dinner with a SD and she is waiting to get paid. A sugar baby knows if she needs something its hers.
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I want a sugar baby, not a wife or girl friend. I am young, in shape and loaded. I can get either one of those.
Originally Posted by Gotyour6
Yeah. Too bad about that other thing.
The online sites are gold diggers and guys looking for cheap pussy.
I met mine at a drug store where she was working.
I went in for a few things and seen her talking to a kid that was her co-worker. I asked for help finding a few things and she walked around with me. She asked me if there was anything else and I said yes, have dinner with me tonight, just dinner and I handed her my card and asked her to text me when she got out of work.
She did and we went out to dinner at a TGIFridays. She said she wasnt use to going to fancy places and didnt know what to order. (How cute is that)
We talked and she was telling me her job sucks, blah blah. I said I could help her. I asked her why she went to dinner with an old guy and she said I wasnt old and older guys are fucking hot (She covered her mouth and got red faced from dropping an F bomb) I told her I wasnt a snobby fucking guy and to not worry about it. She relaxed more.
I asked if she wanted to grab a drink after dinner and she said she was only 18 years old. I wanted to walk her to her car and she said that she had walked there and she didnt have a car. (She walked in the rain to meet me for dinner and went into the bathroom to dry off a half hour before I got there)
The rest is history
I didnt meet her online. I met her in a store and picked her out.
I found her to be beautiful and kind, (She also wiggled her cute little ass when I was behind her and glanced back at me to see if I was loooking)
Gotyour6's story is a great example what I was trying to get across, his SB invested the time into going out and talking about it. Many girls are looking for money right away especially from those online sites vs getting to know someone ie meeting them for dinner without some fee that is lol.
They are getting a free dinner and why not hear the guy out.
I hear you on that Gotyour6, some gals will and some gals won't give me the time, plenty of fish in the sea, not too worried either.
Sb is a play buddy companion is maybe how I coin it.
For a stripper or provider there is a a person for them. Like I said, some are looking for a hooker on retainer.
Oh, by I would never have a provider as a sb means I never heard of a sd ever have an ex provider as a real sugar baby. You can find guys that want to pay you so much for a visit so many times a month. Have at it.
Not bitter about providers at all. I have seen tons of providers think they know what they are doing and think they can switch. They don't, never seen it, I doubt i ever will. I am not bitter towards providers. I am bitter at the ones that distort sugar babys and sugar daddys. Everyone has that I have known and met have. I can spot you as soon as you walk in a coffee shop.
The reason I am on this board is because it has more than just providers but coming from one that wants to be a sugar baby it is expected that you think this board is all about you. See how just by a few posts I can start to figure things out.
Good luck.
Originally Posted by Gotyour6
"Hooker on Retainer". I think that is really what I have with Sarah. Works for me.
Good for you I guess.
But people get confused with definition of each
What ever works for the person paying and the one providing.
You want a hooker, get a hooker.
You want to travel with a coed, buy her nice things, have a better relationship and maybe a GF sort of or mistress then get a sugar baby.
I am not saying that they are differnet in what they do, I am saying that they have a different mind set that gives different results.
I get providers telling me that a hooker is a hooker. I agree. I am not debating that and I dont care. I am saying that the mindset is different, thats all.
Am I paying less for a SB? Nope, shit tons more in both time and money.
Ever hear an 18 year old whine about her fucking problems? Its like blowing paint dry.
But I enjoy being a real, true sugar daddy
I could lose everything tomorrow and I had a great life. They keep me young and you know if you get an old dog a puppy they will start to play again.
