I'm not sure that the eccentric understands why the Catholic church is against IVF. Several fertilized eggs are produced and only a couple of implanted. The rest are destroyed (aborted). So IVF, according to the Catholic church, also constitutes abortion.
I'm not really familiar with IVF procedures.Ironically*, this is one of those issues I know a ton about. I am not able to have children (thank the lord - I love well behaved, non-sticky kids if I can give them back at the end of the day) and my doctor felt it was her "duty" to tell me all about "what I could do" (with $20,000+ of course). I also have a very close friend who has had 3 surrogate babies and as a doula (in progress, I'm not certified yet) I've around a lot of pregnant surros. Bare in mind, I'm generalising here so if this isn't 100% I apologise. It's from my experience rather than endless googling
are these really embryos that are being disposed of rather than sperm? Originally Posted by dilbert firestorm
Man jacks off in cup. Woman gives herself shots to all hell, and they harvest eggs through the vaginal wall. They usually get anywhere from 8-40 depending on how the fertility of the woman. If it's an egg donor, the number is usually higher. If it's an older, or near infertile woman it's lower.
From 20 eggs, about 12-14 embryos come into being. Depending on the quality of the embryos, they may implant them during the blastocyst stage and in that case they don't really like to implant too many. If the embryos are weak, they'll encourage you to implant more. I've known women who have 1 day 5 embryo implanted and get prengant, I've known women who have 5 day 7 embryos implanted and nada.
So assuming it's an average transfer of 3 embryos and one attaches, then yeah. 2 die. What do they do with the other 10 you may have left over if you get pregnant on the first try? You have options. They can be donated for research, frozen for later (lowers the quality and chance of success), donated to couples who's fertilisation attempts failed (sometimes no eggs fertilise) or destroyed.
A lot of couples don't donate (other than research, which the Church also considers murder) because they feel it's their children. They'd rather destroy them or leave them in a freezer for 20 years instead. So the average couple who does not keep their embryos, probably "aborts" anywhere from 5-10 embryos.
IVF usually takes a few attempts too, I think the average is 2 or 3. Assuming 3 are implanted in 3 transfers, and it becomes a single pregnancy (multiples are very common obviously, especially if you implant more than one blast) then 8 embryos die plus whatever the couple leaves in the eternal freezer, donates, or destroys.
I'm pro-choice and honestly, couldn't care less about IVF or what people do with their genetic material that cannot survive alone - but I can absolutely see where the Church is coming from and I firmly believe in this case they are 100% right.
*It's ironic because the day they told me I could never get pregnant I was so happy I wanted to dance in the streets, not hear about infertility "treatments".