It's one of the reasons I moved into the hobby. I went the pro-domme rout for years & loved it. I eventually found I wanted more sexual elements in the mix. So I now want my providers to have a BDSM element. Takes research & communication but the exquisite kink is out there.
Pro Dommes do NOT have sex with clients.
( Hard to swing a paddle or a whip flat on your back with some guy's dick up your ass or in your mouth...)
Pro Dommes are serious about inflicting pain, doing CBT, sounds, and whipping until tears.
They are not Man-haters...quite the opposite.